There IS hope! My first month of pregnancy, I had a "period" - but it was unlike any other period I've ever had. I'm the most regular person most people know because ever since starting my period 2 days after my 9th birthday, my period has come exactly 29 days after my last period. Never late, never early.
I did want to say something about the pain you said you have in your breasts. Even before finding out I'm pregnant, I often had these sharp pains in both of my breasts that often kept me up at night and were sometimes so sharp they took my breath away. It began to concern me, so I did a self exam and to my terror, I found a lump. I actually found a few of them. I told my doctor about them and the pain right away. I went in for my first OB appointment, had a breast exam....and what do ya know? I had fibrocystic breasts. All it means is "lumpy breasts" or "breasts full of cysts." I had 7 cysts. Thank God it's nothing serious. My OB said that they usually go away on their own and the only real side effect is pain. Pregnancy makes the pain worse because there's obvious swelling occurring, so it could be a definite pregnancy symptom. I just thought I'd let you know about this because even though I know now that it won't really harm me, it still scares the **** out of me.
I hope this is your month - try testing with first urine in a few days and let us know how it goes! Good luck and baby dust to ya!
the only way to know for sure is a test it should show up by now good luck