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Heart broken :(
My husband broke my heart yesterday , we were suppost to be on our way back home from our vacation From visiting our family and in the airport he told me he didt love me nomore and that it was better if I stay with my family I left the airport and when back home to my mom house. I gave all of me to him during the time we were together , move away from my family from friend from everything, we where planning to make a family together me, him and the baby now what am I suppost to do. yesterday I spend the entire day crying. I love him even though he doest love me nomore I dont wanna do this anymore and I feel like am a bad mom for not thinking about my baby and that he feels what I feel. I need help I feel like I dont belong in this world no more but I know my baby doest deserve for me to end our life. I need advice , I need medication, I need for someone to tell me that im going to be ok :( how can I make tru this with out harming myself or the baby.
I know how you feel I've been alkostvin your shoes when my son was nine months I was pregnant with my daughter I had to make the decision of leaving my husband I didn't know how I was going to do it if he didn't come to life with us but I was tired of living with him in my MIL house and getting mistreated I said to my self " I'm tired of crying for someone that doesn't love me. I'm tired of crying for a MIL that can't respect me" with that I wiped the tears of my face and packed neatless to say I'm still with my hubby and he loves me and my kids it's not easy but sometimes we have to be strong and act like we are super women and don't need the man that we love with all our heart I wish you nothing but the best if you ever need someone to talk to just message me I'm here for you
My heart goes out to you completely! What a horrible experience!
Personally I would do everything possible to prevent him from being able to hurt you like that again.
keep your head up, you can do this.
Personally I would do everything possible to prevent him from being able to hurt you like that again.
keep your head up, you can do this.
I completely agree with glittergirl! Everything will be fine everything is probably just starting to get to him and he's getting overwhelmed. Be strong mama!
What a jerk. He might just be overwhelmed about everything. My best advice is to let him be, don't call or text him, and don't let him know how sad you are. If he calls just fake that you are doing fine without him. Guys hate that, and 90% of the time they rethink their decisions. He might come back around, he's going to want to see his baby.
Its going to be okay hun If your husband was feeling that way he shouldn't have gotten married or even got you pregnant thats just being selfish just know god has a plan for you and your angel thats growing inside of you just pray about it and have your family support.
It's going to get better...I know its easy to say that when your feeling a different way....but honestly to hell with your husband hun...it takes less of a man to tell someone something like that the way that he did...I know it hurts and I'm not saying that it will get easier over night but you will get through this...God did this for a reason. And you have that beautiful baby growing in You for a reason....your meant to be a mommy...And your going to make a damn good one...its his lost and its ,gods way of saying I got something better in store for you!!! If your feeling pain let it out and just focus on you and your baby...your a strong woman...And you can do anything you set your mind to do...wishing you the best
Ok time to be the women you are. This baby has already had a parent desert it its upto you to love it and give it the world now. You can do this trust me many women have, pull yrself together and love that baby more than anything. Good luck babe.
Thank you, I took out a u/s of my baby and ask him or her to forgive me for eveything im feeling, while talking to my baby I stared crying and I ask god to help me to give me stregth not for me but for my baby.
I.know right now it feels like the world is ending but.I.promise it gets better. Take.out a pic.of your baby im sure that will help. Ur husband is the one.missing out not u. Thia should be your motivation to want nothing but the best for your baby and show your husband that u are a strong woman and can do anything. Keep ur head up, it WILL get better!
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