How do you feel

[Shabs007]

i would like to talk to someone who has had an ectopic, I am finding it very hard to cope at the moment. I only had surgery on Wednesday but I can't breath from the anxiety. I know I'm still in shock and will be for some time. I have had 5 miscarriages before this and was on treatment to prevent another instead I have ectopic preg instead. I never thought that could happen to me ever!

[Shabs007]

Im so sorry for your loss.  It's not fair. Straight after my operation for e topic my consultant assistant came to see me fully pregnant lady and I couldn't help it I just said "how can you come and see me pregnant when I've just lost a baby" she said she didn't think about that but she was the only doc on call. I felt very bad after fit saying that to her. I am not mean I am just hurting.

[adgal]

I also have not had an etopic, but have miscarried 8 times in total...5 before me son and 3 since him.  I have a pretty good idea how you feel right now.  If you ever need someone to talk to, please feel free to send me a message.  I know your in pain right now and I'm so very sorry you had to go through this.  xoxo

[Shabs007]

Thank you guys. Yep my right tube gone. After 5 miscarriages and then being on fertility tablets to get preg again. Fit preg after 1 year but ectopic just can't see myself putting me and my hubby through this again. The pain, the desperation of wanting a baby is very strong but the loss is too big. We are devastated! I can't even breath at moment keep having overwhelming panic feelings.

[Shabs007]

Thank you guys. Yep my right tube gone. After 5 miscarriages and then being on fertility tablets to get preg again. Fit preg after 1 year but ectopic just can't see myself putting me and my hubby through this again. The pain, the desperation of wanting a baby is very strong but the loss is too big. We are devastated! I can't even breath at moment keep having overwhelming panic feelings.

[bbymama2]

Im so sorry.. and i had one and my right tube removed, so i Know exactly how u feel... It took me 3yrs to get pregnant again. And nw that i am every little thing scare me..  

[sadies93]

I personally have not gone thru an ectopic pregnancy but i just wanted to say that i am extremely sorry for your loss and i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.