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How to deal?

My bf isnt great with words, he tells me since im pregnant I should be blowing up his phone and calling him texting him, that its a grrl thing n I should be doing it not him. Idk if its horomones but I feel mad about that. I dont feel wanted or thought of cause of that. What do I do? Or say? I usually dont like just bringing things up cause hell say im just throwing a pity party and he loves me more than I know. But this is his first baby. He doesnt ask about whats going on with the babys development he juss texts me. Nothing else. Its annoying n upsets me... :(
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Lol ! I wish it was that easy haha guys can be real insensitive. Or maybe im making a big hormonal deal :P
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1035252 tn?1427227833
wow that's jerkish..I'd tell him "well I'm bugging you to stop bugging me"...lol
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I have though. And he tells me "well your pregnannt n the grrl so your supposed to be bugging me"
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1035252 tn?1427227833
Oh...well, that's odd. You should definitely just talk to him about it and let him know how much it bugs you!
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No.we text all the time but he bugs im not calling him 24/7 and im thinking are you the one pregnant? He nvr calls me ever.
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1035252 tn?1427227833
Ok so he texts you all the time, but you don't text him a lot? that's what he's saying? he's saying you SHOULD be texting him all the time because you're the girl and you're pregnant?

I'm just trying to understand what his beef is..either way he needs to lay off. Provoking a pregnant woman is never the best idea!
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