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2181422 tn?1400511380

Husbands, boyfriends, or baby daddies

I just wanted to throw a post out there about all these wonderful guys out there. I am truely blessed to have an amazing husband who works so hard so that I can be a stay at home mom to our 3 year old and soon to be new born. We come from two very different families and that seems to be the only big issue we seem to come across in our relationship but even with that stress its nothing compared to what some couples go through. My husband made me a nice bath before going out to buy the bat man movies for me so we can have a marathon date night leading up to the premier of the brand new one! I know he's tired from work. And stressed from anything under the sun but he still tries and tries to make sure our family is happy. I think sometimes I don't realise all the little things he does for me and may take then for granted at times. Sitting here in the bath waiting for him to come home writting this about him has got me in tears * dang hormones lol* any who enough about me and my amazing guy feel free to tell about yours Id love to hear about em and with all the stress the us ladies go through with pregnancy and life I think its time to give the good guys a shout out (:
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1798025 tn?1333814468
Though I'm not pregnant but am trying to be, my husband will be the best and most supportive father ever. He's great now and we don't even have kids yet! I pray to God that I am able to give him a child because it would make him the happiest man alive. I look forward to the day I'm able to tell him that we're having a baby and I hope that time comes sooner than later. He will be an amazing father.

It's nice to know there are good men out there holding it down and taking care of their women. It's far more than just money and providing but about spending time and energy and I'm very grateful to have someone that does just that. I'm also happy for those who have that.

For the women who don't have a good man in their life and having a baby or raising a baby... Do what you can to support your children. I admire you all and have nothing but respect for you! God bless ladies!
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My fiance is pretty awesome, he does a lot for me and deals with it when I'm cranky. I was talking about how its normal to be irritated in the 3rd trimester and he was like "umm is there some sort of support forum for the dads? I don't always know what to do when you get angry with me! " lol he's so cute, I love him so much.
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2181422 tn?1400511380
Your post made me tear up! He does sound amazing. And your welcome for the post I was just welling up with all my emotions and how grateful I was for my husband and I was SURE other ladies felt the same. (:
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I've got my family. Its hard without the Guy, so be really thankful for the good men you have :), I'm happy that you are all so lucky to have such good men!.
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I've got my family. Its hard without the Guy, so be really thankful for the good men you have :), I'm happy that you are all so lucky to have such good men!.
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1798025 tn?1333814468
Though I'm not pregnant but am trying to be, my husband will be the best and most supportive father ever. He's great now and we don't even have kids yet! I pray to God that I am able to give him a child because it would make him the happiest man alive. I look forward to the day I'm able to tell him that we're having a baby and I hope that time comes sooner than later. He will be an amazing father.

It's nice to know there are good men out there holding it down and taking care of their women. It's far more than just money and providing but about spending time and energy and I'm very grateful to have someone that does just that. I'm also happy for those who have that.

For the women who don't have a good man in their life and having a baby or raising a baby... Do what you can to support your children. I admire you all and have nothing but respect for you! God bless ladies!
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My husband and I have been together since high-school. We have two children 6 and 7. They will both be having birthdays within the next month.  I am now 35 weeks with our last baby so we will have 3 birthdays plus school starting in August from now on. How crazy. We didn't plan this last one and I would say I am mostly responsible for letting it happen because I hated the way I felt on BC pills. When I found out I cried because we thought we were done with babies our car only fit 2 kids!!! I also had shingles on my face during the first month of pregnancy and later lost my job for being prego. So needless to say it has been financially stressful during this pregnancy.  But he sold his motor cycle so we could get a bigger car and has worked day in and day out to keep us afloat.  I am so thankful for him, I feel guilty because maybe it wasn't my fault I lost my job or got sick but I was the one who didn't keep up on my end of the deal as far as BC goes. He still finds the time everyday to rub my belly and is always willing to feel all the little kicks and hears endlessly about my discomfort. Also our sex life has suffered a little because I am just not feeling sexy or in the mood for that matter. I still try to fulfill his needs as much as possible.  I am ready for this baby to get here and to get back to myself so I can do more for him like he has donefor me this last almost year and so I can get back to work and help support this family!!! Thank you Scott for being such a great dad and husband you have exceeded any of the expectations I had ever had.  Thanks for this post it is nice to be able brag about him he has always been there he truly is my rock.
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1798025 tn?1333814468
Though I'm not pregnant but am trying to be, my husband will be the best and most supportive father ever. He's great now and we don't even have kids yet! I pray to God that I am able to give him a child because it would make him the happiest man alive. I look forward to the day I'm able to tell him that we're having a baby and I hope that time comes sooner than later. He will be an amazing father.

It's nice to know there are good men out there holding it down and taking care of their women. It's far more than just money and providing but about spending time and energy and I'm very grateful to have someone that does just that. I'm also happy for those who have that.

For the women who don't have a good man in their life and having a baby or raising a baby... Do what you can to support your children. I admire you all and have nothing but respect for you! God bless ladies!
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1798025 tn?1333814468
Though I'm not pregnant but am trying to be, my husband will be the best and most supportive father ever. He's great now and we don't even have kids yet! I pray to God that I am able to give him a child because it would make him the happiest man alive. I look forward to the day I'm able to tell him that we're having a baby and I hope that time comes sooner than later. He will be an amazing father.

It's nice to know there are good men out there holding it down and taking care of their women. It's far more than just money and providing but about spending time and energy and I'm very grateful to have someone that does just that. I'm also happy for those who have that.

For the women who don't have a good man in their life and having a baby or raising a baby... Do what you can to support your children. I admire you all and have nothing but respect for you! God bless ladies!
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2181422 tn?1400511380
(: good I'm glad!
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3094227 tn?1340939908
You right about that I have a good support group and that's all that matters
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2181422 tn?1400511380
I love these! And cassieonda is so right! For those who don't have an amazing guy by them they will find one someday deffinetly when you least expect it! (: I also wanted to add that for the single ladies or the ones that have baby daddies that are not so good even a shout out to whoever helps support you or help you out or even make you feel good. Weather that's a family member or friend. And for those who don't have that then shout out to yourselves! For all that you go through and what you have to do for yourself and your babies!! I think that deserves just as much recognition as the guys (:
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3094227 tn?1340939908
That's sad u don't need him..men walk out on kids like there a bad thing .your child is precious and u don't need no guy like that in u and your son life..my BF didn't even want me to have my baby cause he has three.now he wanna play that roll like he's gonna be there.but eveyrytime we argue u steady telling me u didn't want me to have the baby.well u have  3 other kids who's DOIN fine without you I can make mines the fourth.my sister bd didn't claims hers either til child support gave a DNA test..he's not around and my nephew has and get everything and anything.more then any other kid I kno.i kno mines will be the same cause I have support.  Take care ladies and I wish the best whether your a single parent or have the father around
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Me and hubby have had a few arguements but that's to be expected in any relationship and thanks to prego hormones it made it worse then it was.... but my man is amazing he is so helpful and sweet to me he works all day and still comes home and helps me out without him I'd be completely lost and alone in this world he is literally my one and only we've been together over a year and a half and are completely in love with one another but still haven't said those 3 little words but... we both kno how.we feel and he shows me he loves me everyday in every action he does :-) he really is my soul mate my best friend and the man I'm going to spend my forever with
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3094227 tn?1340939908
That's. Wonderful knowing it's guys like that out here.unfortunately me even being a good woman to an unappreciative man.I feel I may need to deal with my pregnancy and parenting on my own because trying with him I believe may be stressful and I don't want to deal with it.I never thought I'd be the female to go threw this but hey it's life and I'm not the only one it happened to.I just kno I'll be the best mother in the world for my child .
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1998326 tn?1447103765
Would not be able to go through this pregnancy without my awesome husband! Especially since we are going to be doing Hypnobirthing, which is very involved with your 'birth partner', in my case, my husband.
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2129193 tn?1342539411
I have an amazing fiance. He works full time while I'm at home. Of course I do the whole cooking and cleaning but he does so much for me. He's always making sure I'm comfortable. The only thing is he's more strict than my dr lol my dr allows me to drink coffee and soda but in moderation and my hunny won't let me drink any coffee or coke :( and makes me eat healthy. He's a little crazy hahaha. He tells me "I'm not going to let you indulge in sweets and coffee I don't want the baby to come out all cracked out lol
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I love mine like crazy...but yours sounds better want to trade? Lol

Nan, my boyfriend is great  he's letting me be a stay at home gf so that he can make sure nothing bad happens to me. He also buys me whatever I need. Hes just not connected to the pregnancy like I want him to, he's petrified to touch my belly.
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My husband is amazing! I'm am 32 weeks and have been working full time through my whole pregnancy. We just moved into our first house and got a puppy since finding out we are having our first baby. So needless to say things have been extra stressful at times. But he really keeps me going. He has been more than helpful doing dishes cleaning the house changing cat litter letting the puppy out at night. He even makes my lunches for work. I am truly blessed! Its great that you posted this shout out. All too often we take the good guys for granted. But there really ate great guys out there. And if you haven't found one yet don't give up hope! They come when you least expect it!!
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My husband can be amazing, but mostly he is just a big kid & adds more stress :(
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I have a wonderful husband. We are young only 19 and 20 but have been married for 2 years. He treats me like a princess. Everyone doubts our marriage because we are so young but I couldn't be happier! We are both so excited to have our first baby in a few weeks. He is in the military and works so hard then comes home and caters to me. Anything I need or want he is there to provide it!
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My fiance is the sweetest he does so much for me I'm very tired and exhausted all.the.time so he cleans up some of the house.for me along with going to work everyday he always makes sure iv had enuf to eat and that I'm feeling okay he Is so stressed and is convinced he doesn't deserve me but I am so lucky to be having a baby with someone so amazing and great as him he is going to be an amazing daddy he is part of the reason iv been able to keep it all together I love him with all my heart and I hope that our lives continue to be so good x
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362249 tn?1441315018
Congrats to all of u that have an amazing guy helping! you re all blessed to have a great family!

My babys daddy wont even claim him even after i agreed to the dna test and it came back 99% positive he still has a reason my son isnt his and he made my pg extremly hard!!
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2177976 tn?1342045640
i have the best hubby to , i mean i love him this is number 3 for us n like you said u are a stay home mom that will be nd the next month ( im dont know how that's going to work ) but he hate that i work , i only work 2 days away or one weekend out the month , but we are good ( he is the best, he make sure im ok at all time's no matter what my house hold is.( i dont have my mom any more she died when i was like 13 and my dad is still around he is wonderful to... i love just to sit and the house with him on his day's off he work for long hours but he still have the time to cook cuz he love to cook i don't know where he come but all i can say thank you god for giving him to me ,
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