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613471 tn?1244201788

I lost my baby...but god has a plan

Good morning girls I am going to make this short and sweet, I had a miscarriage yesterday morning at 4 weeks 3 days, I woke up and found I was bleeding with small clots went to the ER and had a pelvic exam and ultrasound and they confirmed what my heart was telling me that I was in deed miscarrying. I didn’t need a D&C as I was having no problems passing everything myself. I am sad but know that god has a plan for me and I will be okay. I thank all you kind women for always being here for me when I had a problem or concern no matter how small, me and my fiancé are going to take a break from TTC and just live our lives and if it is meant to be it will be and know god will see me thru. I will stay around to be a support system to all the wonderful woman on here….HUGS to you all.
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189069 tn?1323402138
I am sooo sorry you had to go through that. I'm deeply saddened by your loss, but happy at the same time for the way you are handling it. Your faith is admirable! God bless you and good luck. I will keep you in my prayers and hope that one day soon you will have a beautiful baby in your arms :)
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582963 tn?1483452520
STAY BLESSED! STAY STRONG!
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290867 tn?1333569278
I am so sorry that you are going through this. You are very very right God has a plan for you my dear! I will keep you in my thoughs and prayers. God Bless
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435139 tn?1255460391
Hugs!  Sounds like you are handling this well though!  Good for you for staying strong!
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712236 tn?1231961771
i am so sorry hun, try and stay strong and hope everything will work out for you  x x
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589143 tn?1291498173
im so sorry but like you said god has a plan and u cont question that  i my self had three misscarriges until now god will give you your time just like he did me but stay strong and hold on and if you u con always find me on here if you wanna talk
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im so sorry it sounds really <3 breaking im sorry om goodness it really wants to make me cry im trying to hold it in but message me when you get this pleace and thank you
  
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I am so sorry for your loss, continue to have faith and stay strong. We are all here if you need to talk.  I will keep you in my prayers.
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446156 tn?1275859576
I'm so sorry hun.  Find strength in the Lord... thats all that got be through when I had my 3 mc's.  I don't want this to sound wrong but... think of it this way... its easier to cope when you mc early.  I lost a baby at 19 weeks an 5 days.  I gave birth to a perfect baby girl.  I heard her heart beat seconds before she died.  We had a funeral for her... it was the hardest thing I have ever had to do in my life.  My point is that when I had my ectopic pregnancy 3 days after finding out I was pregnant... I was VERY sad.... but in a way I was thankful that it happened so soon an God spared me from another still born baby.  Some times we just have to look at it like this... what could had happened?  Its hard I know... but God knows when its our time.  I'm going to be praying for you.  Anita
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589762 tn?1330207135
Oh hun.... Im so sorry...... But your doing the best you can by putting it in gods hands.... Things do happen for  reason and you will be blessed soon enough! Stay strong! ***HUGS***
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364288 tn?1300144506
So sorry to hear you went throught that. I too am a firm believer that God has a great plan for all of us! My husband and I had a MC 3 times and still thought God was in controle. He will bless you with a baby in His timing! Enjoy the time you have with you fiance, it all changes after a baby. Keep us posted on how you are doing! I will be praying for you.
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568659 tn?1256139982
I am really sorry hunny, like you said God has a plan, He knows what He is doing.
I will keep you in my prayers.
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this really wants to make me cry sweetie :'( not good not good at all i had a misscarrige @ 3 weeeks and 5 days it hurt me and my boyfriend we were ready for this but i guess god has another plan for us im sorry to hear abot your loss it makes me really sad that women have to go through this but i guess it happens for a reason im really sorry im trying not to cry while doing this but it really hurts me because it happened to me a few months ago :'(
   if there is any thing you need to talk about im here for you 100%

thnks much love -XxpandaxX
                            Britttany
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613471 tn?1244201788
Thanks so much, I had my time to cry and we as a couple decided that we would not question why, just know things happen for reason and I still hurt but I am blessed with 3 children and I think of the woman who hasn’t been able to have 1 and her struggle, if it is meant to be god will see I am blessed with another.
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287246 tn?1318570063
I'm so sorry and just know that we are all here to support you.  Your strength is and will be an inspiration to others.......

***HUGS***
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ohhhh...... i'm so sorry sweetie hope you feel better soon and be blessed with lovly gift soon.
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726324 tn?1324074610
So sorry for your loss. Sounds like you are staying strong though. Good luck for the future x
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621803 tn?1302888341
Oh hun, I'm so sorry.  I can't imagine what you are going through.  I'm so impressed that you're being so strong about it!  You're right, God does have a plan for all of us, and I'm sure that part of his plan is for you to be a mother soon!  Good luck with everything!
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