Is anyone's boyfriends family / him don't believe you're baby is his?

Question

I have 20 days left due on November 20th & my boyfriend / his mother / his ex girlfriends family including her are all waiting for my baby to be born for the DNA test ..  I feel like my whole pregnancy I have been questioned & doubted :(

Cheyenne__19 · Answer

But the baby's his correct?

LoveBug_19 · Answer

We both decided to see other people when we split but we were not engaged then

Cheyenne__19 · Answer

Thank you & yes they have made me feel so horrible & it's even worse that they actually made me question myself about her being his baby ! 
& the thing is .. He was so happy in the beginning of our pregnancy .. Then all of a sudden around 4 months he changed & just told me "hopefully she is mine"...  It's the hardest thing to hear. 
But yes I'm going to do the DNA test for sure , even though now because of all this I'm so nervous ! :( 
but I believe that once he has his  proof he will be there for her ..   
I never mentioned that I cheated on him in the very beginning of  our relationship with my sons father like 10-20 days after & never told him until he found out & asked. 
.... Maybe that has something to do with it?

bevnunez · Answer

If I was you since they have made you doubt and put you down n hurt you telling you its not his baby I would just put it in my head it does not matter if it is or is not his I would do the dna test and when it does come back his i would throw it in there face and tell them all to go f*** themselves and never let them around or have anything to do with your baby, and I would say you couldn't support me or be there for me while I was pregnant so now it will stay that way when the baby gets here... sry so long I just hate how people try to just bring down and hurt someone expecially while there pregnant.... goodluck I wish the best for you and your baby

MommyofaJr · Answer

I honestly think , if you r doing all those things then u should be prepared to take care of ur little one urself ... my boyfriend & i have been together 4 years and i never once cheated on him , when i wasnt living with him he never accused me of cheating but now that i live with him and im pregnant with his baby he always think im doing something ... i ignore him because i cant stress over something i know im not doing ... so sweetheart do wat u have to do for ur baby without them

proundmom · Answer

Not a whole lot. When he buys him diapers he buys the great value diapers same with wipes.

Cheyenne__19 · Answer

OMGoshhhh ..  I'm sorry to hear that :( 
that's so awful & he's there for that child?

proundmom · Answer

No when he was 4 months old his dad went and got another girl pregnant.

Cheyenne__19 · Answer

Well in that case .. He doesn't deserve to be around you're son .. That's terrible :( he's obviously not ready / doesn't care to be a father ...  His only child?

proundmom · Answer

The thing is my son looks just like him. And he still denies him.

Cheyenne__19 · Answer

Omgoshh :( that's so terrible ..  You should get a DNA test & prove it to him , make him feel like complete sh**.

Cheyenne__19 · Answer

Ya I'm all nervous now...  
I don't know why. 
But now because of all the doubt ..  they mind f***ked me ..  
it's like now I'm doubting myself :( 
Such an awful feeling.

proundmom · Answer

I know how you feel. My first sons father still denies him and he's 18 months old. I never cheated on him. He just doesn't believe me

kay1027 · Answer

I honestly wouldn't worry with it. I mean to ease his and your mind I would get a DNA test but you don't owe his family anything.

Cheyenne__19 · Answer

Did you cheat on him though when yous split? @lovebug? 
& ya I am ..  It's almost like everyone is waiting to see if it's my boyfriends baby. 
It makes me so mad & then .. Because iv been doubted my whole pregnancy 
I'm like "hmm did something happen on my girls night out? . .. Yes I got wasted , but you always know if you have sex with someone". 
Plus my conception calculator says I conceived around the 24th feb - March 1st. 
& ontop of that .. I got my period on the 13th of February ..  So it's not possible.

iicato · Answer

Don't sweat it right now, you need to stay positive for baby. Once baby is here, do the DNA test, and prove them all wrong!! And if anyone says anything to you about it, BITE THEIR HEADS OFF, because I wouldn't tolerate that sh!t honey.

LoveBug_19 · Answer

I have the same issue but my fiancé mother is telling just about the whole town its not his baby and other bull but little does she know she will not even get close enough to smell my baby to get a DNA test and it makes me so mad I want his family to be in my baby's life but they don't want to do right so I will keep my baby away and besides that my fiance said even if it is not his biologically he will still be there..but I do hate we split right around the time I conceived

clowe93 · Answer

My finance dad and his grandmother hates me. They haven't gotten anything for the baby. They don't think it's his. But honestly I wouldn't be with him if it wasn't his. I'm not getting a test done. I know who the dad is, **** them. I'm tired of them bring me down when I have done nothing to them.

Cheyenne__19 · Answer

Ya it's the worst feeling in the world ..  & iv pretty much been alone my entire pregnancy , I mean .. He gives me grocery money & did go to my docs appointments in the beginning .. But randomly he just stopped everything. 
I just bought all my daughters nursery on my own. 
Decorated her room on my own ..  
Had a baby shower last Sunday ..  He didn't even ask about it ..  
I really don't think think he believes she's his anymore :(

daniellegraffeo · Answer

If my husbands family ever insinuated that, my husband would put them in their place and so would I. They would also never get to see my baby.

Desteny111114 · Answer

Well prove them dumbys wrong and im the end they will have a lot of but kissing to do for stressing you out your whole pregnancy

Cheyenne__19 · Answer

Honestly that's a very good question & he's still really close wth all of her family so it's extremely hard on me dealing with all of this my whole pregnancy. 
& I never cheated on him or was separated from him..  
But I did have a girls night out on February 8th ..  stayed out @ a friends house ..  On February 13th I got my period...  So even all these people think I did cheat ..  The dates wouldn't add up correct?

Destyni_Boyer · Answer

Same here! My fiancé and I were in a huge fight and separated for 2 months where we both saw different people before working out our differences. I had a period after I saw the last man and got pregnant 3 weeks later (time of conception).gMg fiancé however knows we had our differences and even if this baby was some how not his he still wants to raise it as his. His family however is willing to disown him if it isn't his though.

mommyinfebruary · Answer

I thought I was going to have to deal with my bf mom since he hates me n is always brainwashing my bf to believe things. I was sure she would try to brainwash him into not believing it's his.  Luckily nothing yet besides that he should leave me n my daughters name we both picked is ugly n stupid and blah blah. Plus what does his ex girlfriend have to do with it? That would make me so mad.