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Is it normal to be hurt by a sex???

Ok I am 4 mnths pregnant, I have wanted a little girl very bad for the past 2 years! The dic told me last week so far the baby looks to be a girl! Im sooo excited but I will be very crushed if when we go back and it says the baby is a boy?? I am the oldest and only granddaughter in my family and having a lil girl would be amazing, but how do I make it ok for the baby to be a boy????
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I felt, feel the same. Im 29weeks. I have 3 boys already and i had my heart set on a girl for years. Sadly i found out im expectin another boy. I cryd my heart out and wouldnt speak to anyone for weeks. I love my baby as much as my others and am glad hes healthy but stil 9weeks on im stil guted, havent bought anything yet and havent got a name. I hope u get your girl. With this beingyour first, i doubt url b as bad as me as u can always try again. Sadly this is my last. Im only young but 4 lads is enuf for me. Gud luk huni xx
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I wanted a girl at first.. But at 16 weeks my doctor said it lookEd like a girl... I kinda wished it was a boy then... Two weeks later found out I was having a boy. I was stoked!

Little boys are amazing. Yes girls are nice but just think of your Mommys boy. With there little comb overs and sweater vests and little boy voices and boy toys are just the best..
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I wanted a girl so badly, but we were told it was a boy. I remember being a little bummed just because I wanted a girl so much. But after it set in I started getting excited to have a boy. He is now 2 and the best thing that's ever happened to me. I couldn't imagine life without him. My husband and I are now pregnant with #2, and it would be nice to have a girl this time, but I know I'm gonna be completely in love with this baby no matter what.
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I wanted a girl so bad with my first baby and when the doctors told me i was having a boy ic was almost heart broken.but as time went on it didnt matter what sex it was it was my baby...and when he came out and i.held him i didnt even think about having a girl so dont worry
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Once the shock sets in you will probably feel fine if it's a boy. Until last week we thought our baby was a boy until we got another US and discovered the first US was wrong and we're having our third daughter. At first you may be disappointed but you can always try again and looking at cute baby boy stuff may help. And in the end all that matters is a healthy baby
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You can always try again for a girl if your baby happens to be a boy. Just say to yourself it's a healthy baby either way the sex goes. You will love your baby beyond beliefth wether it's a boy or a girl. To me all that matters is my baby is healthy, and all goes well with pregnancy and labor.
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