Is she really pregnant?

[donasim]

Almost 5 weeks ago I hooked up with this girl I met online, shes 15 and I'm 17. We had unprotected sex and I didn't pull out because she assured me that she was on birth control. We got into a fight and I blocked her number and for about 2 weeks I didn't talk to her, until she called me on monday of last week, on a blocked number yelling at me. During the conversation she told me that she's also pregnant and she found out last week. She said that she didn't tell her mom and that she was going to keep the baby,her friend also told her that there are abortion pills. I asked her how she could of become pregnant being on the bc pills; she said that she was taking antibiotics at the time and that probably messed it up. So she asked me if i wanted to get back together with her, I said yes to be nice; and to also press her for information. she said that she loves me and wants to be with me forever, I told her that I dont want to be a dad. The next day she texted me telling me that she told her mom that night, and she made an appointment at her obgyn at 8:30am. at 8:49 am she texted me telling me she had the abortion and that they gave her an injection in her tummy. she said that her follow up appointment is 2 months from now, but I'm not sure if I believe her story. She hasn't been texting me lately, and I called her mom to talk to her about the situation; but as soon as I said "is this Laura's mom" she hung up without saying a word but she was on the line for 42 seconds. she takes 4 different medications including ibuprofen so idk. The mom knew about me but she didn't want her daughter to keep talking to me. I never met her, I called her on a blocked number. I'm thinking about changing my number and forgetting all about this.  The last time I talked to the girl she was very sick throwing up, having a fever, and a headache. She said that it was probably due to taking a new medication for mood swings. I would think that a girl who is pregnant wouldn't be taking ibuprofen and other types of pills daily.

[OctoberMommy2014]

well, at least you got lucky on that part.. thank goodness. they're not allowed to give her that info. though, so hopefully no one else tells her..

[donasim]

she actually doesn't, the only way she cud find out is if my school gave her my info or planned parenthood gave her my info. I had to get her tested for STD'S a few days after we hooked up cuz i was scared. So I gave them my information.

[OctoberMommy2014]

Amen!! I feel sorry for the next guy.. she probably is trying to get pregnant..
she probably used this story to try & keep you around TO GET her pregnant in the end.. I really hope she doesn't know where you live either!

[rebeccaann11]

Please avoid her at all cost! She sounds like she wants to be pregnant. Change your number. I hope she doesn't know where you live.

[OctoberMommy2014]

I don't think she's on medications for mood swings, she's probably borderline psychotic & I'd just leave the situation alone. one, it would have taken more than 19 minutes to be in & out of that office. two, her followup wouldn't be 2 months later. three, she has NO proof andddd she's already brought up having sex again..?? hmmmm.

you're smart, I think you know better.. aside from sleeping with her to begin with. leave the situation be, and please use a condom from here on out. you're only 17, you still have a lot to learn, and the last thing you need to be doing is getting a 15 year old pregnant in the future..
good luck!!

[HappyMommyBear]

you cant have sex after abortion.. it would hurt like hell.. she probably wasnt pregnant in the first place then when she found out, she wanted you to keep seeing her and wants you to have sex with her so that this time she'd get pregnant.. i'd say run boy.. thats crazy!

[donasim]

Yeh the whole thing is kinda weird, she said her friend's mom knew she was pregnant before her actual mom did. she even  texted me on thursday and asked me if i wanted to have sex with her because I make her horny...of course I didnt want to..She only wanted to do it with a condom though. I think the whole thing is a little odd.

[lyssababii18]

Doubt she had the injection..hardly used for elected abortions..also abortions require 2 different appointments by law..the first is a sonogram the second is the actual abortion and they also require a 4 weekl follow up not a 2 month...

[MamaDanielle]

I agree, run!
Next time you should definately use protection to save yourself as you found out for yourself that girls can lie! :)

[RN_JC]

Lol @ nana_love

[ericatoday]

Yes please use a condom. I thought it would never happen to me but I got chlamydia at 17 don't risk it and don't risk another psycho

[nana_love]

lol dont run! lol it could be true (sarcastically saying). But I would change my number hopefully yall didnt hook up at your house.

[RN_JC]

Ptegnancy is a possibility but the story it's self sounds very sketchy. In this situation I agree with rebeccaann11, run and far away lose all contact. Next time dont trust anyone but yourself and use a condom. Good luck dude

[bebe5709]

Change your number and try to forget it. Next time use a condom, regardless of what the girl says. It's just safer.

[AOlivia94]

Sounds nuts. Ask for proof from a doctor if youre really interested but honestly this sounds like a big lie so you would talk to her again.

[OctoberMommy2014]

I think she made herself believe she was pregnant, told her mom (which probably made her hate you), then ended up finding out she wasn't pregnant.. so basically she spilled the beans & told on herself!

just sounds too typical.. guy sleeps with girl.. guy loses interest.. girl ends up pregnant.. and of course you never see proof.. of course she's 15!

I agree with @rebeccaann11.. RUNNNNN!!!! change your #, just leave it alone.. good luck!!

[Emi10172013]

Yes run this girl sounds psychotic

[rebeccaann11]

Run away as far as you can!

[ericatoday]

She could have gotten pregnant but if she said she got an abortion then just forget about it and move on. Personally she sounds a little crazy. And idk why she has a follow up. I had abortion almost 4 years ago and never had a follow up or an injection.It sounds weird. I knew girls in high sschool who faked abortions and pregnancy. Some girls want the attention. You should just leave it alone and see if she contacts you.

[knufrio]

Methotrexate (the injection) is also not commonly used in abortions unless its an ectopic pregnancy.

[MBri]

Honestly I don't believe the story either. Pregnant women can only take Tylenol. From my understanding. If she says she got the abortion then everything is over. And after an abortion, you get a follow up visit like 2 weeks later. That story doesn't add up

[kennimae]

He said he ignored her for 2 weeks so it is possible.

[knufrio]

If you had sex with her and then a week later she said she was pregnant that probably wasn't true... Or at least you weren't the father... It takes about 2 weeks (sometimes longer) for your body to develop enough hormones to test positive on a home test.