Just a bit worried

[lilmisscheeky]

Well i am 16 weeks pregnant , with my first but the thing is that i dont feel pregnant at all and i am worried that i am not going to have that bond , i want this child more then anything.
I have had some light bleeding and went to the doctors but the heartbeat was nice aand strong.
But other then my belly feeling a bit hard i dont feel anything , my breasts are sore and i am not really going to the bathroom alot either , family and friends have told me that i should start to feel flutters now but i havent, so now you see why i am so worried.

[JoyRenee]

This happened with me as well! Once baby starts rolling and moving constantly you'll feel a TON better. You WILL bond with this baby. Try not to force it and enjoy the pregnancy while you can! Soon you'll have a little needy person taking up all your time and affection.

[catlady171]

this is completely normal. i had a pregnant friend of mine say the same thing to me not to long ago. she said she didnt feel pregnant at all and she was worried. now she has a very big belly and all she talks about is the baby. i think alot of first time pregnancys feel that way....

[michelle148]

This isnt anything to worry about you have heard a heartbeat which is a good thing and most people do start to loose there pregnancy symptoms only a few have their symptoms remain, friend of mine lost their morning sickness and pregnancy feelings after 12 weeks but all was well and they felt great even though they was pregnant. If you are worrying then explain this to your GP they might be able to put your mind at rest for you.