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Lets talk about sex

So mommies when you all stop having sex with your husband ? And what do you feel in your vagina does it feel hurt enough to have intecourse with your husband ?
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34+5 weeks n very uncomfortable some days so its every other day for us it doesn't hurt but I definitely can't get any on a full belly or else I get sick along with heart burn...lol I pray I dnt get stitches cuz I'm over this belly on belly action lol
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Well i stop for the frist trimester bc i was in bed rest after that we just to have sex every night and now that im 37 weeks we do it like every 2-4 days,at the being it hurts but after that it feels good  
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7677085 tn?1395374075
Had sex until my water broke with my last pregnancy. This time we haven't done it as much (our daughter is a toddler - enough said) but we do still have a healthy sex life. Once or twice a week typically. Lately my lower back has been killing me and so every time is a "quicky" but it's better than nothing. As huge as I am, I'm trying to get it in now because I know from past experience that I probably won't want it for several weeks/months after the baby Comes.
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Lol. Is it bad that I'm only 7wks 2 days and I haven't had sex with my husband since we concieved?! He wants to but I've never been the" I wanna do it all the time" girl. I was 20 when I list my virginity with him. We have one daughter and now I'm just like blah all the time. I feel bad for him. Poor daddy to be
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No sex over here,sadly..lol..after the baby come he said we can..but im prob not gona want to..:(..but we were doing it upuntil  the middle of my second trimester..it seems lke 3months with out it..i believe its been three months nd some more but im not sure..
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sex hurts for me right now i dont know why but it.seriously feels way to.deep like im.being stabbed i still deal with the pain just to make sure he stays satisfied but the.whole time is just pain full so im just like hurry up
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Thanks @kandallleblanc I will try my best :)
@miraclemom22 I understand maybe you should try to touch him in a sexy way which would turn him on I suppose. I try that with my hubby sometimes I get lucky sometimes I get pushed off but try hard again and again or if I don't win I tickle him till he gets out of my sight.
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Hello ladies. I am 25wks 1day.and my husband and i have sex almost every night.sometimes multiple times a day.even though i am gettin huge.i still feel very sexy.and my husband has a huge part of that.sex still feels great.but i do agree with some of you ladies it can bw uncomfortable in certain positions
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Yea Elle . The min I started showing around 18 weeks it all just went down hill. . . He will not sleep wit me his terrifdd . I have explained it won't harm her and tried get him goin but now nearly 29 weeks n he still has.Nt broke.. I am quite pissed off wit him but what can I do lol
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I haven't had sex for almost 3weeks! But my doctor said no sex because I went into preterm labor a few weeks ago. I will definitely be asking ng the doctor if I can have sex again when I hit 36w...
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Im 34weeks 4days nd i still have sex but it hurts me it feels inconfortable
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Im on pelvic rest so no more for me!
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9121436 tn?1407979502
Unless something goes seriously wrong till the end. He already is going to have to be patient for 6 weeks or more. Not going to punish him anymore than that. lol I know with my first it was a few days before.
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Im 37+1 and me and my hubby didnt have sex but once or twice in two or three weeks. Now I just want this baby out so we have had sex for 6 nights straight and tonight will be night 7 because im trying everything to have this little girl soon:) But honestly I have to be on top and we have to use a um.... toy... for me to be able to get mine because doggy style and him on top dont work anymore cause I am huge so its uncomfortable. Good luck mamas
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I'm 35+5 and we stopped having sex almost a month ago, but NOT because of me! He says it's just too uncomfortable, I'm pretty pissed about it though. Especially since we won't be able to for quite a while after the baby is born. It's almost depressing that he won't at this point :(
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And it gets easyer to have sex in a hottub if you have one haha ;)
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I am 33 weeks pregnant but still haveing sex,  it hasn't hurt so far yet.. And i hope it wont
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10515800 tn?1419227034
Maybe you should have him go to a doctors appointment and ask the doctor about sex during pregnancy.  She/he is going to tell you honestly that a sex is perfectly normal and safe and healthy during pregnancy.  Maybe that will make him feel a little better. And have a serious talk with him and let him know you are fine and sex is important to you. Especially now more than ever. Lol good luck♡
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8023513 tn?1404352955
I had zero sex drive from 25 weeks onwards, im 34 weeks now and had sex tonight for the first time in almost 10 weeks now I'm super horny and hubbys all worn out! :(
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I know what I wrote is hilarious but seriously any of you ladies have same problem??
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I have sex hardly once in a week or once in 2 weeks. I wanna have sex all the time with my husband but he tells from the beginning sex is only good once a week. He tells me sex is bad for health. The more he disagree the more I want it. If we have sex 2or 3 times a week because I force him to, he than tells me that he might get a heart attack if we keep going like this. I feel he scared of sex but loves to watch porn. I was virgin till the age of 24 and I gave my virginity to my husband after wedding.  Now I am ten weeks pregnant and he's now more scared to have sex because he it might hurt the baby. I know its funny but what should I do. I wanna have tons of sex :( 
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You can have sex all throughout your pregnancy as long as you feel comfortable.
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36w3d & I just never feel the drive for it anymore. It's been this way for about two weeks already but still have sex every other day after purchasing lube. It doesn't hurt I just don't get wet down there like I used to anymore so it's helpful.
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I feel like I have to pee non stop after sex its annoying and it hurts me during
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