None of mine ever felt like flutters..I am of average size and it felt like something thumping or tapping me from the inside at around 18 1/2 weeks with my first. My second same time and third 15 weeks. I could feel it when I would lay down in my bed on my back. Good luck :)
I'm +++ 350lb and weight has nothing to do. I have an antirior placenta so I didn't feel a thing till 23 weeks exact and then it wasn't flutters it was if she put the boot in lol. Felt her ever since lol
Thank you both so much... It really means a lot to me. :-)
I am plus size and the only time I felt my prince was when I laid flat on my belly from 15wks until around 22wks.....now at 28wks and 5 days with him being bigger and stronger I can actually feel both inside and outside of the belly while sitting,standing,and laying on my side!
Try relaxing when trying to feel your little one also if its comfortable try laying on your stomach for an hour to see if you can feel the baby! Trust me once the baby is farther along you will feel him no matter what size you are!
I didn't feel my boy until I was 21 weeks. Some women don't feel movement until later.
It is possible that your weight is causing you not to be able to feel the baby. Maybe you'd feel less concerned if you would buy yourself a handheld doppler and learn to find the baby's heartbeat with it. I got the Hi-Bebe and it was really useful.