My boyfriend keeps volunteering my flippin food knowing i need as much as i can get.

[Mommi2bee]

I just need to vent. My boyfriend and I live with his family. Before we moved here they agreeed to get a three bedsoom so we can have our own room. We agreed to help with the bills if they get a three bedroom. At their other house we was sleeping on the couch. (That was before I was pregnant) long story short they didn't get a three bedroom , they got a two bedroom and now were sharing a room with his brothers! I'm ten weeks pregnant so I have a while to stack up money nf get a place before then and I cannot wait becayse I'm gettin tired of living here. All the ftuits and foods I buy to eat healthy his fat brothers eat all my food! They never ask. So when its time for me to eat I'm so hungry look in the fridge to find mt **** missing! Its so annoying. I don't touch their food and when I do I ask and do not eat the whole damn thing. Most of times I'm super hungry. My boyfriend don't have a job right now but have money saved up and were constantly taking that money to buy food that's gonna be eaten up. No matter how many times he tell them don't touch they still do. I can't keep nothing in this damn house. So I told his mom I will give her a hundred for groceries every month. I have a hundred left for me to buy groceries and her kids eat mine and the ones she bought. Not only that she cook my food too knowing she didn't buy it. And what **** me off everytime I make me a quick meal to eat and put up a little for later my boyfriend always tell his mom to go inthre and get how much she like! also he tell his brothers the same thing and then I have nothing to eat later. I'm ten weeks pregnant and its important I eat. I don't want to be rude and seem selfish but I decided to tell my bf how I feel. Here goes.....

[LovemyKids86]

My DF's brother lives with us and is supposed to move sometime at the end of the week ***HALLELUJAH***
I completely understand where you are coming from though, he's been here since the beginning of my pregnancy and was eating all my food and stuff, I was trying to figure ways of hiding it in the fridge but he always managed to see where it was and eat it. I actually stopped buying so much fruits and healthy stuff because it would be gone before I could get to it, and then the snack foods I wanted to keep like my Luna Bars and crackers and odd stuff like that I would keep in my room because I don't eat stuff like that so often. If I crave fruit and don't have it I usually will make a special trip down the road to the store to get some for myself. I think he got the point after awhile because I started writing little notes around the house on "rules" I guess you can say, like what foods he can't touch, note about leaving the air conditioner alone, and also note about the damn toilet seat and flushing! I'm just glad that he will be out by the end of the week and I can go back to normal living and have my house back.

So know that you aren't being selfish in this matter, I completely Understand!!

[starshine355]

No...your not being selfish..you just want to eat
The food that you brought.How can that be
Wrong... you really need to get out and soon....
They won't change.. I lived with my in-laws  for
A short while....and it was a nightmare., and we had
Our own room.but like you what ever food I brought his mother ate with his sister and nephew
And they didn't even live there.
It drove me mad.... I'd buy food then hide it in the
Bedroom sometimes.

[siennasmommy]

Hope everything went ok with the talk.

[Jaz1989]

You arent being selfish, thats not right. Voice your opionion or its going to keep happening. But then again the mother my pull a quick one and say that your being stin-ge and throw you out. Best bet is to save for the next couple weeks and move the hell out

[VaniDavila]

Living with someone else has always been difficult. But them making you share a room with his brother? You were sleeping in a couch, why not make him sleep on the couch. That is just insane.  I had a similar situation where my uncle moved in with me (he's younger than me) and we only shared the kitchen and the shower. It was hell. They would go and get everything I had in my living room and then when they had visitors over, they were all over my side of the house. It was hell!! I recommend you get the hell out of there before you give birth. I know it'll be hard, but even if you just move into a studio... that's better than living with another family, especially if you are spending money on your food and you don't get to eat it.