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Not sure when I conceived

Me and my current boyfriend broke up for a week in february 2010 between the 20-26 and I had intercourse with my ex. Now I remember him having a condom on because I remember looking down and saying you have a condom on? And seeing it, I know that part for a fact, but what I cannot remember is if he put it in a couple times before actually putting on the condom I know for a fact there was a condom and that I told him to get off of me before he could actually *** because I didn not feel right. Do I'm thinking I would have never even let him put it in without a condom because what would have been the point of me asking and hesitating first to make sure he had on a condom, ok that's the part that's driving me nuts. I then started my period 13 march 2010 and for what I remember it was full 5 days (but my periods would come every 3 weeks since January due to my abortion in November). Ok now I am 22 weeks and 2 days today 8.21.2010 with a due date of 24 December and the only person I ever have unprotected sex with is my boyfriend. I'm hoping and praying This is my bf baby and that that 1 week of us breaking up and that 1 incident with my ex didn result in my pregnancy pleaseee help with advice and tell me I am just worrying too much. Thnx and sorry so long  
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Awww that's cute =] but yes that was the only time I ever had sex with anyone else besides him that time feb20-26 one of those days and it was with a condom and I'm really thinking it was never in before he put the condom on bcuz I remember stopping and saying is there a condom on and seeing it. I can't stress it enough but after this advice and posts I'm very confident it is my boyfriends =] thank you all
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No problem girl I know exactly how you feel cause I'm in the same boat... I don't know the chances of getting preggo by pre *** but you definetely can... But if you had sex with your boy friend after if period in march and only him then he is definetely the dad... Just don't stress cause then it will take away from enjoying your pregnancy... Everything will be alright... I told myself have hope and keep faith and now I'm naming my lil one Faith ;-)
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Yea I had sex after my period always with my boyfriend just that one time in February b4 the 26 with a condom and then any other intercourse always with the boyfriend. When would my fertile days have been having a 21 day cycle? I'm worried the ultrasound could be off or just throwing all Ifs in there because I'm worrying .. The 27 of may I was 10 weeks and 5 days by u.s I had another one aug 10 and was 20 weeks and 5 days I should have been 21 weeks and 5 days going bythe first u.s so those are pretty accurate right? So I had to have gotten pregnant in march for sure? I rele hate stressing my baby and even tho he wore a condom I'm so worried the worst could happen ='[ even tho I didn't cheat I know it would be over but it is still my baby and i will love her regardless I just want her to have a good dad and the other guy is a dead beat! What are the chances of getting pregnant by pre- *** anyways? Plz keep giving advice your putting me at ease and thnx for all of your guys' time  
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187316 tn?1386356682
If you got a period and are due in Decemeber then you got pregnant in March.
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I conceived my lil one march 26th and my due date is December 17th so that means you had to have gotten preggo after your period.  Did you have intercourse after your period?
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Ok thanx I'm just so worried and I hate stressing my baby out but you think there's a chance it could be the exs' without him ever even coming?
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796867 tn?1255206807
I am due on Dec 18th and I conceived in late March, so I'd say that your ex is not the father.
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1194973 tn?1385503904
If you had conceived in Feb. you would be much further along. Based on your due date, conception would have been sometime in march or April. Also considering you had a period inbetween, that would make it even more unlikely that it would be your ex's. The only way to know for sure of course is paternity testing when the baby is born, but it sounds like it's your bfs.  
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