this was posted twice just so you ladies know..i responded to the other.
worriedbabe...my thoughts were the same..there is still such a HIGH chance ofhaving aperfectly healthy baby...and even if the baby was born with a syndrome, a baby is a blessing and a miracle
i'm no mathematician...but look at it this way, there are 39 chances in 40 that your baby does not have down syndrome and 99 chances in 100 that baby doesn't have edward syndrome. an amniocentisis will give you a definite yes or no for down syndrome, not sure about edward syndrome. amniocentisis has a very small risk of miscarriage ( 1% ). no one can tell you what to do here, this is a very personal choice. but, you may want to talk to martikadragoon, another member on here, who has a beautiful son with down syndrome.