Plz help ! need advice quick

[ButterflyLiz]

hi , well heres my problem me and my husban are ttc..my last period was aug 2 and for the past 3 months i havent had a period , im the type who always get my periods on time and on the same date . on the first month two days after i missed my period i took the first HPT and it came back positive .. but then i took another one the next day it came back negative i've also taken a blood test that same week and that came back negative .. now for these two months i've taken atleast 3 more hpt and all come back negative .. but i also have pregnancy signs ..like im going more often to the bathroom , my breast are heavier like swollen and sore at times .. also i've been sleeping more like all i want to do is sleep because im so tired .. also i have viens showin up on my breast and my legs something i've never had before... i havent had any nausea but i do feel sick at times. i've also gotten mood swings ... and just to tell you im not going thru any type of stress what so ever.. nothing emotional ..and i've never had any type of infection nothing but hopefully you guys can help me give me some advice ..   Thank you...

[neasyc]

IF YOU DID MISCARRY IT CAN TAKE A LONG TIME TO SHOW I BIB NOT BLEED FOR 8 WEEKS AFTER I MISCARRIED

[ButterflyLiz]

i think that if i miscarried i would probably have my period by now

[Barbs123]

I think you miscarried. It is sad, but a possibility. You have to get your doctor to pay you attention. have you been ovulating? Notice any discharge from ovulation?

[chantal21]

Okay. I would just keep that appt and see what happens. I would venture to say if you had negative tests, especially a negative blood test, then you probably aren't pregnant because your body produces hcg and it would certainly be present and high enough by now. Feeling movement is different for everyone. I felt little twinges around 13 weeks. They say the thinner you are, the earlier you will feel movement. But it wasn't until 16 weeks that I really knew it was the baby kicking for sure. I hope everything works out for you!

[bambies]

i have also had little flutters in my stomach to have u got any other children as they say the more u have the easier it is to feel the baby moving from as little as 6 weeks but if its ur first it is normally around 12 weeks depending on how sensitive u are to feeling with all my children i started feeling movemnt around 8 weeks

[bambies]

hey i have had this problem i did a test it came back pos and then every other test after that said negative i missed my period did a test and it was faint but positive i had some bleeding last week and the hospital scanned me and said that they could see the baby and all looked ok but when they did my bloods the hormone was only 11 they told me to do another test a week later to see what it said well i did it this morning it was negative and i phoned the hospital they said well it must have been a m/c well i did another test this afternoon and i had a positive this has been happening to me all along i have got to go back tomorrow and have more bloods done and tests and a scan to see what is going on i have been told by my doctor that woman can have low hormone pregnancy's and need some kind of help to boost the hormone i would say get another blood test done and if it says neg then ask for a scan to see if there is anything there cus u can have false negatives but u cant have a false positive there would have been some kind of hormone that the test picked up on good luck to u hun x

[ButterflyLiz]

i've been trying to find a place where they do free u/s ... and i did but the app is for jan 21 and i cant wait that long i have to get help..but they wont do it w/o an app.
and by any chance do u know at what month does the baby start moving because i've also been feeling like its weird its like something poking you???

[chantal21]

I would get another opinion then. They should just do an u/s so they can figure out what is going on.  I would either demand one, or go somewhere else.

[ButterflyLiz]

no , see when i was going to go do the u/s they did another one of those hpt and it came back negative .. so she didnt want to waste her time on doing it since she said herself that i didnt have anything to see  im like wat the????? i was so pissed off you know because wat if i am pregnant and my level is just not high to show a positive yet she want me to pay the doctor two hundred dollars just so the doctor could say that im stressed out and to send me birth control im like huh ???.... and i've actually met a lady that she didnt find out she was pregnant untill six months when she did an u/s she said that everything came back negative ..and the doctor told her she had stress hello ....??? six months stress come on..

[chantal21]

Have you had an u/s yet?

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

I'd get another blood test.  I didn't get a pos HPT till 8 weeks.  I know you would be farther along but I would get on just in case.