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Pregnant after MC

In November I had a MC at 6w3d and I was devistated. It took 7 years to become pregnant and I didn't get out of bed for 3 weeks. I am now currently 4w2d and Idon't plan on telling anyone until aftery first OB appointment and maybe not untill after the first trimester. I am not excited or anything and I just feel nervous waiting for a MC, I can't even bring myself to tell my BF, he was just as devistated as me last year and everyone's since he has been asking I'd I got my period. Any helpful advice?
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I am also high risk. ive had one miscarriage after being told i could never have a baby at all. i understand being afraid.
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I had a miscarriage in dec and I'm pregnant now 11 weeks and I've had 2 ultrasounds n seen the heart beat twice n everything is good so far!
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I have had 2 mc already and am at high risk. I have a short cycle and pcos. I have a 7 year old and my BF is 45 (I am 32) so he is in a hurry to have a baby. I anounced the pregnancy right away last time and my MC started the next day. I am gonna tell my BF but that's it for now. I hope this one sticks
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July 13 will make a year since i had my first miscarriage. i am now 21 weeks pregnant! I was also very afraid to tell anyone about this pregnancy at first... i told immediate family and that was it but they posted all over facebook before i had a chance to. At first i was upset that they posted, but then i told myself that this baby needs the same attention as the other baby. so we told everyone, i have been in the er a few times for a bad uti but other than that everything is perfect with my baby girl! :) i say do what you are comfortable with, but also remember every child deserves the same love and attention from day 1 :)
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I lost a baby 3yrs ago, and i was very sad also. So after 3 yrs of trying im preg, and i was super excited, but i was scared to tell people bkus of what happen and thought it might happen again.... But i told the good news, and nw im 18wks and still scared!
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I too am pregnant after a mc. At first I was scared to tell anyone thinking of all the what ifs. Then I thought what if God is telling me it's my turn? And I'm missing out on my blessing by not telling anyone? So I told everyone! We had a little scare around my 8 wk mark bc I started spotting on Mother's Day. When I told my fam everyone was real supportive and got me to the hospital. I'm now 10w2d. My point is don't be too scared to enjoy your blessing. Have faith that God won't disappoint!
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I mean every month since the MC he asks about my period
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