Question for all mom's and soon to be moms

[Noahs_mommy14]

Should I leave my soon to be child's father/fiancé because he doesn't take up for me to his mom. She blatantly makes me feel like less than his first child's mom. She wants him to only focus on his child that is here and not really pay me any attention,  and any time I get some attention she tells me that I should talk to him because he has two kids. He and I took pictures and she has nothing but negative things to say to me. She has also made it her business to tell me about all the things she did the first time around and she has done none of that for me. I'm just so sad because my child's father/fiancé doesn't even take up for me or tell his mom that she's hurting me. I just want to end it now and walk away.

[FirstTimeMommy89]

I wouldn't visit her either... does your fiance know how u feel?

[Noahs_mommy14]

She will have no relationship with my son at all.

[leanna92]

Life term lesson if you don't get along with the in laws  it usually never works any way

[Noahs_mommy14]

Thanks, that's just what I plan to do.

[jordynmackdizzy]

I dont think you should let his mom ruin your relationship for all you know thats exactly what she is trying to do!! I say dont let her be apart of the childs life and dont go see her. Shes not your mom. Dont stress though, shes not mportant compared to the big picture

[mamaMcAnulty]

My ex's mom treated me like this he had a previous child I ended up having a miscarriage but 5 years later I left him