Rude people! vent

Question

I'm 34wks pregnant with baby #2, I have a 3 year old son. When people ask me if I'm pregnant and I say yes their reaction is "your pregnant AGAIN" or "your having ANOTHER baby". They act like this is my 10th baby or something,lol. It gets on my nerves because its usually women who have serval kids back to back.

Aaron_N_SophiasMommy · Answer

It's not so much that I care what they have to say, its more annoying than anything. I have to "smile" and walk away before I punch somebody. My patients were very limited even before pregnancy.

Spiket77 · Answer

I'm 34 too and expecting my second. My children will be 2 years apart...
I haven't shared the news much yet because it is early. I'm a little terrified of having two close together but I know they will enjoy each other. I went to buy some pregnancy tea yesterday and had my son with me... The woman looked at the box and asked me how old my son is..."17 months"... she said, "Oh, good lord!". I just smiled. I'm sure she was thinking I was nuts.
One thing I remember from my first pregnancy is people say A Lot of stupid things to pregnant women. I'm really going to try to dish it back this pregnancy. Lots of sarcasm and 'none of your business' attitude will be seen. HA! Good luck to you!

mommyofaria · Answer

Oh I'll say to hadies with em!!! My mom was a single parent and she raised five on her own....that's including four boys!! People sicken me when they try to judge....actually I'm very proud of you moms with more than one child....it shows how strong.women really are...I'm 21 and pregnant with My first and I always hear...how will you take care of a baby...your not ready for a baby....I hope you have some help.....why didn't you use protection.....and I'm like why.does it matter to You? My family is happy....and as long as my daughter loves me and is taken care of BUTT OUT!!!! ,tell them to kiss where the sun doesn't shine :)

KTowne · Answer

That blowws my mind, because everyone was like "WHEN are you having another?!! He's going to be in high school before he gets a brother or sister" that is perfectly spaced, who cares what they say!!

crstl11 · Answer

If u wait too long apart to have kids they have nothing in common my brother and I are 8 yrs apart we have nothing in common and it ***** but my husband is the baby of three and there is not but 4 yrs between the oldest and him and they are all very close I wish I had that and I want my kids to be close too

crstl11 · Answer

I have a daughter that will be three on Aug and I'm 10 weeks I think that is the perfect age apart. And for other peoples opinion they can kiss my butt they aren't raising my kids I'm doing all the wrk. They can get over it

Stax360 · Answer

i had that problem when i was pregnant with my 3rd but funny enough i am now pregnant with my 4th and no one has said anything people make you laugh sometimes at the way they judge other people

sadies93 · Answer

Im 19 and almost 37weeks with my first baby but I get alot of the "your young and stupid" comments but I pay it no attention, my son has everything he needs and that includes alot of love and thats all that matters to me.

beccamummytobe · Answer

People are the same with me im only 19 ive got a 9 month old and im 13 week pregnant with my second i dont really care what people think and say because its got nothing to do with anyone else all my family are supportive and accept it and im still with my babys dad who also helps alot i love been a young mum and im not the only person in the world to have kids do close together millions of people do it and alot of time its even younger age gaps between them dont worry what people say its your life and its got nothing to do with anyone else :)

valerie89 · Answer

I had the same with my step mum, I have a son who will be 2 in Sept and ill be due 29th of November. My step mum gave me the again, already speech as she believes that its best to have another child once the first child is settled on school. But as long as im happy and my.kids are happy what does it matter. I like the fact that there will only be 2 years between them I hope they will be close that way.

Kesh23070712 · Answer

I went thru tha same this is my second and I.also have a 3 yr old daughter. The only one who.usually have the most to say r usually the ones that wish it was them pay no mind to those hating ppl

mummyt3 · Answer

Who cares wat people think im 20yr old and on my 3rd pegnancy i dont care wat people think ! As long as ur children are happy, u love and look after them wats their problem !