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376148 tn?1309899577

SEXX!!

ok so this is a werid question and im kinda going to vent a little....but its not werid for me to want my fiance is it! And then to get mad when he wont give it to me! I know i shouldnt get mad but i feel as if he all of a sudden never NEVER wants me...he says he finds me sexy..well then why wont he fall for the bait!! LIke cmon im pregnant and he just dont get that i get mad when i dont feel attractive because he wont bd with me!!! Am i wrong ladies for acting this way i mean my hormones are flying through the roof and i dont know what else to do!! How am i supposed to share my feeling with him about this when he wont listen!!!?? Any suggestions???
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376148 tn?1309899577
ok so i talked to him last night..and alls well ends well!! lol....i have managed to suduce him!! haha...but i asked him was it becasue he didnt find me attractive...he said no..the baby..lol...he afraid he s going to hurt the baby..which makes no sence cuz i do all the work anyways!! haha....but thanx for listening and im sure its not going to be the last time i vent on  here about that topic!!!
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461781 tn?1285609481
It hink that men have a general fear of hurting you, the fear is doubled when you are carrying his baby!  So I would suggest that you take your husband with you to your Doctor and ask the Doctor if it is OK to have sex.  When the Dr. says that it is perfectly safe then he might feel a little better about it.  I hope thats it, I know that i'll feel extremely insecure when I'm pregnant too if we're not having sex.
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489099 tn?1286220981
You are not alone honey!!! I have had the same thing happen to me, off and on. Like its good for days and then, hello 3, 4, 5 days go by, like hello. What happen we were on roll. I have told my hubby that it makes me feel like im ugly now, like im not as pretty as he thought i was before. He tells me thats not it, well then what the hell is it. Ive gotten to the point that if he wont give it to me then guess what, when you come around wanting some, dont expect me to be like oh yeah. Nope ill be like nope right now, nope im tired, no dont touch me. I have to admit it works sometimes and other times, what the hell i just give in. lol Its like being pregnant has made me a sex freak.
I would talk to him and hopefully he can explain what he is thinking, what he feels. Goodluck hopefully you can make him understand.
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376148 tn?1309899577
thanx so much and for not thinking my post is too out there!! ( if you knwo what i mean) I just needed to know i think that im not the only pregnant woman feeling like a sex addict because i want it soo bad and he wont give it to me!! :( lol
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600643 tn?1249429768
Hey there well i have to say that i as well have a fiance who is having the same attitude. I do know from talking to him that he worries about me and the baby and there is sexual attraction there its just hard for some men to do the deed when we are in this state. I somewhat understand but also have the feeling that i can not control my feelings and that i just need to have sex. Its hard not having it when you are craving it so badly. My suggestion is to sit him down and talk to him. Ask him bluntly what is bothering him and why he wont just give in.. Hopefully he will talk to u and lay everything out on the table and in time hopefully sooner then later he will give in and have some much need sex.. I hope this helps.. and congrats on your pregnancy
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