No offence taken GRose thanks for the shortcode help! I think he might be feeling same as me slightly depressed we got very upset after an arguement couple of nights & it ended in sex to make up but both felt we wanted a baby at the point in time its only last few days we're coming down to earth & thinking lets stick to what we really want first which is our own home. I am starting to feel better thanks to all your support on MH. xxx
DH- dear husband
DF or DB- dear fiance or boyfriend
AF- Aunt flo
BFP- big fat positive (pregnancy test)
BFN- big fat negative
DD- dear daughter
DS- dear son.
Honestly, I think you need to give it some more time. I think you are having a little bit of depression after having the abortion and I think you need to work on that first, before bringing a baby into the mix. Wasn't your b/f a big reason for you getting the abortion? Is he on board with having a baby?
Please don't take offense, I am just thinking of what may be best for you.