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Stressed. Need Advice. Im 21.

So, Im in a rae situation... I left my boyfriend of a year for another man. After being with this other man for a few weeks I found out Im pregnant with my ex's baby. Now my ex wants to work things out and I think I do too. But I really don't wanna hurt the new guy. So not only do i have the stress of being on both sides, they argue with each other A LOT. My ex is offended that the new guy keeps tryibg to act like the baby is his. And Im starting to find out that the new guy is crazy, like follows me evwrywhere, accuses me of cheating, looks through my phone, super cligy crazy. And Im not liking it. Help?
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Move in with your bd
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It's not there place too let him move in. The **** is wrong either them .
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8544739 tn?1399067859
Wow I see a restraining order might be needed.
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Kick hm out
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Omg he's moving in? To me girl that's crazy obsesive ! I'm not saying go back to your ex because if you honestly don't have any feelings anymore its not worth it but maybe try n work it out if u do have feelings but this new guy seems a Lil crazy from what I read so far
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Thats the thing. Everytime I try to leave him he begs and crys and prettt muh doesnt let me. He managed to convince my roommates to let him move in. Without even asking me!
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8544739 tn?1399067859
Well tell the new guy ur not happy and u don't have the same feelings for him. If he's like that after a few weeks it will only get worse get out while u can.
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I say go back to ur bd
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New guy needs to go. I'd say if you and your babies father want to try to work things out go for it
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