yesterday was the due date and my baby would be a year old now. It's hard and it's hard as hell. hang in there and it'll happen.
Dont feel guilty rejoice in what you have now.... I lost my first 5years and 3 months ago and I sometimes think about what if i would of had that baby. What would things be like what would he/she look like, act like, who's hair would my baby have??!??!! But then I see my daughter whom if not for losing the baby she would probably not be here or the sweet little girl that she is now.... So I try hard to be grateful for what I have in fear that one day I will lose her too..... I love my children and I am sorry for my own loss but if not would I have my 2 beautiful healty babies now????
Its ok and great to remember your baby and to feel sad for him not making it, but be grateful for what God has given us!
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I know how you feel. My due date is coming up in two weeks...I'm not pregnant so I can't really use that to rejoice..and my boyfriend doesn't want to try for a few years so I'm babyless. I wish with everything I have to be pregnant still...I can't go a day without thinking about my little bundle. I want my baby back too...I am going to cry the day my baby is due
I know how you feel so much... I went past my due date and am now going to give birth only three days after my d/c last year. I feel so guilty in the sense that I should have one already many months old by now, and on the day I said good bye I will be filling my arms with another.. but I am so happy to have another, I understand your guilt.. I deal with mine everyday myself.. But we are lucky to have our arms filled so quickly, and so much company in our hearts.. Right?!??!
im sorry dont feel gulity like joy said let all the emotions out :)
Good luck to you!! I hope it all works out!!!
thank you
this is my first TTC cycle since my loss and my emotions have taking full force on a rollercoaster...im planning to test next week
Thanks everyOne.
Wait-evth: I hope you get pregnant soon........
yeah I remember that mine would have been this coming Friday....
waitn and evthing4reason---I got pregnant after my loss and it did make things more bearable, for ME. But it also made some things harder. *HUGS* I hope you guys get pregnant and are able to move forward! It'll be hard but rewarding!!!
You should never feel guilty for feeling the sorrow and grief that a loss brings! That was your baby, no matter how underdeveloped or young. That was still a little life that you loved without knowing or holding, a little one you cherished, dreamed of, hoped for... don't feel guilty! Cry, laugh, get angry---don't hold back your feelings!
dont feel guilty....it was a loss and a loss is a loss
its a pain you will feel forever and this day will forever be on your mind and in your heart
there's no shame in it
I too hope to be pregnant by my due date, especially with my two best friends due that same week.
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im so praying to be preg by my due date...regardless i know it will be tough but we're women and we're strong and we keep on moving
Thanks, I just feel kind of guilty crying over it because I do have another blessing growing inside me.....
I'm so sorry sweetie! Keeping busy is good, but allowing yourself to feel the emotions is very healthy. *HUGS*