WTF do i do ??????

[FEMMIE]

Ok i have been told i am having a miscarriage and yes i have been bleeding for 13 days now and passing the odd clot over the last few days ANYWAYS tonight i have just passed what looks like a sac with a placenta and everything WHAT DO I DO WITH IT ??? i feel horrible about flushing it ... and i would feel even worse if i burried and the dog dug it up ... any ideas???

[JOYWAWER]

Any tissue that is passed while having a miscarriage should be taken to a dr, wrap it up in a cloth and take it in ASAP the dr may need it to run tests!

[stellkas]

This is so damn painful.

[stellkas]

I am so sorry Femmie....I too am miscarrying as you know, but I am in so much pain right now....I need to get this done.  I am so scared it is going to hurt so badly.  I think you are supposed to bring that in to your doctor!

[babywillowmae]

i would put it in a jar or something like that and bring it in to your dr.  They like to look at things that might be fetal tissue.  And, if it wasn't a chemical pregnancy, they can do test's on it to see if there was anything wrong with the fetus.  I am very sorry for your loss.

[Itchy_and_scratchy]

I just wish i had had the same chance, i know when i pass i want my ashes scattered in a beautiful place so people could go there and remember me by.

Much more personal that flushing down the sewers or buried in the garden where it will almost certainly be dug up one day.

Thant way everytime you pass that place you can smile and be close to them

[anxious2]

My doctor said if I ever passed something like that I could bring it in for testing.

[FEMMIE]

Man did that just make me cry ... i havent really cried yet ... good idea thank you so much

[Itchy_and_scratchy]

Sorry for your loss

I know when i mc'd i wanted nothing more than to have something, a place, anything that would remind me of the child.

Its hard to decide what to do with it but i wouldnt flush it, you might regret it.

Do you live near any lakes or anything? Body matter is biodegradable and it would be nice to have a place that reminds you of your child where the dog cant get to

[FEMMIE]

It was meant to be a "chemical pregnancy " hench an egg with nothing inside !!! WTF is this then ?????????????????????????