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Who is my baby father.

Okay so I had sex with this guy I use to fool around with. we had sex while him and his girl friend were on a break it had to anywhere from Feb. 26 through March 5th we had sex once! a couple days later I got my period. I had sex with my boyfriend right after my period went off. I got pregnant. I introduce my boyfriend to my parents as the father of my baby but then he went to jail and now I think that this other guy may be the father I told the other guy and he says if its his he will be there for his baby but he doesn't want anything with me. I had the baby a couple days ago and my boyfriend is still in jail so the other guy agreed to take the DNA test but he is still rejecting any possible relationship with me. What should I do I mean is there really a chance that the other guy is the father ???
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Get the paternity test done. The only thing people on here cab do is speculate. The ONLY 100% way to know is DNA.
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okay so does the fact that I had my baby almost a month before my original due date  change anything about my possible conception dates?? she was completely healthy nor premature or anything???
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561393 tn?1320962815
I went under conception calculator and put in your original due date and its say possible conception feb.26-march 8th. possible ovulation march 4th. What you thought was your period might have been implantation. Good luck
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You can't base it on what the baby looks like. Get a dna test.
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thanks sooo much you've really helped me were taking the test tomorrow I will keep you guys posted

xoxo
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1123420 tn?1350561158
No its never to ealry, my son looked just like his father the exact day he was born, infact his baby pic and his daddys baby pic, well lets just say they could have been twins, and at 6 months old my son still looks just like his dad, nothing like me yet :(

DNA test is the best thing to do right now, for answers
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shes only a a week old and I think she looks like him could my mind be playing tricks on me is it to early to tell??
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1123420 tn?1350561158
Well let the one guy who offered take the test and you will have your answer
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I meant to say my period was really light.
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My due date was Nov . 25 but I had her on Oct 30
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But my period was really... I got it only a couple days after sex with the first guy so I didn't think it being light would make a difference since it had only been 2 days after the sex??? I just want to avoid the embarrassement.
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Since you had a period after having sex with this other guy, the father was most likely the boyfriend that just went to jail.  
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1123420 tn?1350561158
exactly once once does the test, and hes the father then its solved, if hes not then the other one is, problem solved!
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676912 tn?1332812551
If he agreed to do the DNA test, do it. That's the only way to be 100% sure.
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what was you'r conception date and or due date. information you gave really can't help us help you
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