abortion

[Soni_Cupcake]

I would like no rude comments please we are all adults here. But when I was 17 I had a abortion. I don't regret my decision at all because it was something I thought hard about and I was very ill at the time too. But I'm 15weeks pregnant now and I feel so right that I'm keeping it and my whole mind has changed and I'm healthy I'm truly happy and ready to be a parent . Nothing I regret about anything. But now since my ex the one who got me pregnant at 17 I guess still keeps tabs on me now, knows I'm pregnant and keeping it. He told everyone about my abortion and I got a lot of bullcrap from it. It's like my private buisness and I don't think it's right for anyone to do that. And that happend 4 years ago. I just feel like crap cuz it's not like I wanted to make that choice but my health was important and I don't think I would of had a healthy pregnancy. Guys are jerks .....

[Kimj1218]

I understand what your going through, when I was 19 I made the decision to have an abortion because I knew we weren't ready(he wanted the baby). I was young & just started college after the break up he called me a baby killer & said things to belittle me. Guess what it's your choice don't let anyone make you feel down or bad about what you did, people will always have an opinion but ITS Your life. It's either their going to say young girls have babies out of wedlock & can't take care of them or I'm pro choice she should not have an abortion. Live your life for what it is now & enjoy your baby.Congratulations!!

[derrickjrmommy]

I totally understand where you are coming from i was 17 and was forced to get an abortion due to some situation...
But then had my son a week before i turned 19. It was kinda cool to have yoir due date be your birthday but me and my lil sis all share the same birthday. And now im 21 and 10weeks+5 with my second child. Im in my own place. I have my own car. Own money and everything so it is possible to do everything and still have a child it may be harder but its possible! and for your ex there are people around the world all ages getting abortions everyday!! I understand if you have a TRUE reason to get one but if you dont im not for it you need to get all the negative people and things outta your life your about to be a MOTHER and your really dont need it Hopes and GOodLUck to you and your baby ♡

[AjayeMommy20]

I'm 100% against abortions......but it's your life and your choice. Who am I to judge =)

I honestly feel your ex is an Ahole for telling people YOUR PERSONAL business! It's no ones business what happened and why you did what you did. Enjoy this pregnancy and congrats momma. As long as you're happy, screw these other people!

[1st_time_mommyscarbro]

Abortions aren't always the wrong choice and it's a hard decision and choice to live with but some times it is necessary.  Here in Montana they are trying to punish women for getting abortions but I think thats wrong and if a woman gets raped and pregnant than mentally it might be life threatening for the woman and child so people can do what they want but dont make a person feel guilty for her choices! I think you obviously made the correct decision and you should always stand by that. F*** the ex and what he has to say!!! You are happy now and congrats on your bundle of joy. Don't let anyone ruin your HAPPINESS and this baby will truly be a blessing especially now that you are ready! Good Luck!!

[julymummie]

I'm pro life, but I understand because of your health you have to do what you have to do. & your ex needs to grow up and find some business of his own. Yes guys can be complete jerks

[Karina517]

I'm pro choice and you did what you had to do ! You knew you weren't ready and didn't want to bring the child to suffer in this world. People are always gonna talk there crap about people, that's never gonna change but he shouldn't talk his crap if you guys are pregnant now and know you can take care of that child be Happy about it and forget the past !! Don't listen to people and there ****.

Congrats on your pregnancy :)

[tishaxx]

I mean I hate hearing that word sorry my spelling lol

[tishaxx]

I hate the said of that word and I'm against it to but it was your choice and yes your health is more important and your ex shouldn't of open his mouth idiot lol but dontnlwt anyone put you down it was your choice hun I ent gonna judge you for that or nor anyone else should either good luck on your baby hun don't worry bout silly people

[titan_nation]

I'm pro-choice all the way, and can totally understand where you were coming from doing what you did all those years ago (: as it is, I was considering having one because my first 6 weeks I didn't know I was pregnant and spent a lot of those days drunk and high. Fortunately all seems to be going really well though. But anyway, I digress!
Just ignore all the hate. They don't know what you went through, and I think people that hate for something that happened already are so sick and twisted they shouldn't be judging anyone else as it is. Don't bother yourself with the opinions of wolves when you're already stronger than any of them. ♡ if you ever need to vent, feel free to message me (:

CONGRATS ON YOUR BABYYYYY ♡♡♡♡ Such a great feeling when you're ready!

[OctoberBaby5]

I personally dont support abortion but im sure you had your reasons, but he had no reason at all to do that that is somethin very private. . Congratulations on your pregnancy!