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am I over reacting?

I was laying down on the couch and he comes from outside and holds down my feet and was tickleing me tryna be loveable but it was to the point that I was squerming around and I kept saying stop my stomach hurts and he kept doing it finally I kicked him and then he was laying on top of me tryna kiss me and I told him get off our squishing me and it hurts but he wouldn't and he saw I was mad so he got off and I just walked off and got in the shower. When I got out of the shower and got dressed I went to sit in the couch and told him can I talk to you. He's like "sure" so I told him I am not mad, I am upset, it really did hurt and you wouldn't listen, don't think I am being boring or dramatic about it, its just that I am pregnant and I can't be doing fast movements it hurts. Do you understand and he said  "yeah whatever" so I repeated my self and I said I am not mad I am upset and I would like you to be a little more compassionate. Then I leaned over to kiss him and he grabbed my hand and pushed it away. So I got up and went to the room. 40 min went by and he walked out, and I did too I was hungry haven't ate all day and went to go buy food. When I was on my way to buy food I kept thinking "why am I taking this **** if he is being childish and doesn't understand" so I was like usssa I went back to the apt. Got my bag and told him I am going to spend the night at my mom's I think you need some the to reflect, then I left
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I don't think you should have left but!  I know exactly how you're feeling.  My husband just doesn't understand how a little movement can hurt me and how frustrated we can get so easily because we are incredibly uncomfortable. They have no idea of what our body is going through even if they say they do... THEY DONT! Lol I have the same problem my husband and I are always very playful so when I'm pregnant is hard to just stop doing those things.  I constantly have to get on him about it.  
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No your not over reacting,  guys have to understand there's some things you can not do because your pregnant & they have to be a little more considerate. Good job mama!  
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Its understandable.. sometimes I dont even wanna be touched at all lol I mean youre pregnant!
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