annoyed even more when prego

[mpattea]

So the only thing that annoys me so much is that my cuz is 27 n acts like a young girl she has a daughter she's 7 but her mom leaves her at home all the time with me or just with anyone her daughter always wants to do things but she doesnt care yet she gets on fb n pretends to be a caring a loving mother yet she's never home for her n she can't cook or clean n is lazy I'm only 21 n I'm much more put together then her I do things with her kid n my son I take her with us n have fun n I have a kid on the way idk n she works but she doesn't spend any money on her child she waits till one of us gets her things n she spends her money on guys n parties n concert stuff idk its annoying AF

[mpattea]

Yea she's terrible it gets me mad but when she gets in an argument with my.aunt or a family member she packs up their stuff n leaves she takes her daughter with her n it worries me cuz she doesn't even watch or take cade of her anyways she just does it to be dramatic n a few months later she moves back

[Guinb24]

Smh some people you just wanna tell them off but its kinda hard to do so. There's times where he'll leave for weeks at a time and never asks about his boys. A few times he actually dumped them off at my house while I was sleeping and I didn't know they were there. Poor things were outside playing. I told my hubby he to talk to him. Situations like this makes it harder for me to say things.

[mpattea]

That's what I'm talking about and she was in the hospital for like 2weeks n crying around how she missed her daughter n wanted to come home but when she got out she was home for like 2 hours then went out with her friends till the next day

[Guinb24]

I know how you feel. My brother in law is the same way with his kids. Except he don't drink or anything like that. He has two boys which he dumps off with his mom and with us. Don't get me wrong I love them boys to death but it'd be nice to see him be a parent to them. He also has a girlfriend whom he has a daughter with. She does not care to watch them boys at all. So the boys are always with us or with grandma. It's annoying cuz he makes good money and never spends on them. He hardly spends time with his kids. Sometimes I feel like telling him to take care of his own kids lol sorry for the rant. I just know how you feel.