anyone else?

[emeryg]

I swear this pregnancy made me incredibly lazy! Giving my sex life problems! Because I'm too tired for sex I still give it to him! But I cant get into it so I just lay there and he doesn't like that he does all the work and I lay there but god with this big belly I can't move well like I try but I can't move like I used to I just wanna go to sleep and lay in bed. I'm so damn lazy. I have 0 energy. I hope I gain all my energy after birth?? Another thing this will be my second time vaginally giving birth and I'm already a bit insecure that he doesn't like it cause maybe its not as tight as he wants it cause I've given birth. This second time around giving birth will my vagina go back to normal as it is right now? Or is it gonna be a even looser? :(

[MommyFavata]

I've almost completely lost my interest in sex this pregnancy which is hard for my hubby bc we were like jack rabbits with our first child.  And considering all the horny unfaithful partners there are out there today, every few days I'll engage in some type of sexual encounter just because in all fairness, you demand 100% commitment from your partner, it would be pretty messed up if you left them to self service for a long period of time.  Sorry if this is tmi but trying things like assisting while he "helps himself" or even giving him a little before bed handy could go a long way. Lol. But what's helped my husband and I throughout this pregnancy is I've made a big point of making it clear that it's not him... It's not his sex. It's my physical state and quite frankly being this big I just don't feel "sexy". As long as he understands the issue is not at all with him, you guys should get past it problem free

[jess-ann5]

I completely understand... I just didnt want you to take advice that would hurt your relationship. My fiance and I are in the same boat. We have sex every day and even when I'm not in the mood I try to make the effort to satisfy him. I mean girl there are some guys that would rather masterbate then make love to their woman during their pregnancy even if the woman is completely healthy enough for sex! So I think we got it pretty good in that area!

Maybe try buying a really cute piece of lingerie. Let it do the work for you!! LOL

[rebeccaann11]

that's understandable. I would just tell your boyfriend, but at the same time don't stress about it. maybe youll get a boost of energy lol

[emeryg]

The thing is I want to have sex and make him feel good and I wanna go crazy on him hah its just hard to do that right noww. Because my bellys really big and not only with sex with everything this pregnancy tires me out a lot. My last pregnancy wasn't like this at all. But there all I different I just hope once i have my little man I regain energy and all of that.

[rebeccaann11]

don't feel bad. you shouldn't feel bad. just because you're pregnant you're such a ssex drive decreases. some women don't feel attractive with their big belly. its not anybody's fault and nobody should be complaining. if you don't want to have sex.

[emeryg]

Okay well the hurry up and nut comment wasn't my comment. And I'm lazy with sex but I don't act not interested cause I am and that's why I still have sex when I could just tell him no straight out but we have sex every single night I don't tell him no cause I do want to satisfy him I still move and do some work but I'm just saying its hard for me to cause this belly I Still try but I know he wants more than what I give so I keep trying but my belly is just in the way and its hard for me to move a lot with it I'm 30 weeks ten more to go I really do hope once this bellys gone I can show him wayyyyy way different I want to get into it and move a lot but right now it is hard but still every night I have sex with him and I try to make him really like it.

[oxmbeav]

Your vagina goes tighter after birth then it was before.. Kinda like a reset button lolol.

[jess-ann5]

I wouldn't worry about your vagina going back to size as much as your lack of interest in sex. Your vagina will go back to normal but his emotional distress may not. Think of it this way... would you like it if you were really horny and he just laid there.. Not interested and never did any work? And then on top of that he told you to "hurry up and nut already! " NO. You'd be hurt and upset. Sometimes it may not hurt to force yourself to act interested. He is the man who loves you and still attracted to you regardless of your big belly.

[mommiKat]

He'll understand.  I'm a lazy sexer too lol my hubn y has to foreplay with me first then ill bend over for him & bam!  Lol (sounds quick cuz it usually is lol) I tellm hurry up & nut already lol

[emeryg]

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