best way to get pregnant

[sue0429]

i am looking to get pregnant. i am scared im not able to have children.. only because i want them so bad and also because ive had alot of partners. me and my fiancee are looking to have a child, so id there any advice of vitimans i can take to increase the chance of me getting pregnant, or what can i do... i need help please!!
thanks, Carlee
also i am o negative and i had all the signs and symptoms of being pregnant but took a test and it was negtive. then i only had my period for like 4 days and it feels like my stomach is getting bigger and harder.. but the pregnancy test was still negative... =(

[sue0429]

thank all of you guys for the suggestions, im most definately going to consider all of them!

[5n1]

I agree the multiple partner thing should not affect you getting pregnant..The prenatals will also help..Also, do you know exactly how long your cycles are and when you ovulate? If not like Heather said there are ovulation kits that will help..I have heard several women on here use them and say they work...Good luck hun

[vacuumprincess]

I am 33 and scared about not having another baby too.  I don't know what really creates this fear... just getting older I guess.

You mentioned having multiple partners in the past... I don't think this would decrease your odds, unless you have contacted some sort of disease.  But keep in mind you can get something from a partner is there was only one in your past.  When you get pregnant they will do std tests, although it is always a good idea to know BEFORE if you have anything that needs to be treated.

I don't know anything about blood types & pregnancy.  

Have you been trying long?  I noticed other posters suggesting ovulation KITS.  I personally have never tried one.  I did however, look at ovulation calanders & check for my "best days" to try.  Yes, start taking prenatals.  they can be nothing but good for you!

good luck.  remember to have fun too ;)

[HeatherLF16]

Oh I forgot to add you should start taking prenatal vitamins I take the Nature Made brand they are over the counter. They don't help you concieve, but they have all the vitaimins for a healthy baby!

[HeatherLF16]

About 20% of women have bleeding during their first trimester for one reason or another and it could be mistaken for a period.  If you suspect you could be pregnant you can always go get a blood test at the doctor to know for sure.  You can get false negatives on home pregnancy tests.

You should buy an ovulation predictor kit from the drug store and start testing when your period ends.  There are two days in your cycle where the strips will test positive and that is when you are most likely to get pregnant.  When I concieved my son it only took a month because I knew exactly when I ovulated =)

Best of luck to you hop you get your positive soon!