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big move tomorrow!
So tomorrow, I'm packing down my little car and moving 4 hours away with my baby's father. We have worked the big things out, and we'll continue working on the smaller things. I can't believe how much I love this man, it's absolutely ridiculous. I'm so happy to work things out, especially for our baby boy, but I am SO nervous. What if I get down there and he acts like he did before, will I have to pack up and leave again? I guess I have to take this risk for our son. Prayers/well wishes please!
Hope it all works out for you guys and congrats. I think everybody should try to work it out but if it don't work out at least you guys tried!!
Aww thanks meelahmil! Hopefully your baby's father will come around because every baby deserves their daddy :)
I'm sooo happy for u :) I pray everything works out because u and ur son deserve it. Hopefully mines will come around cuz crazy as it sounds I actually miss him alot. But anyways prays and well wishes for your lil family :)
He's 5, but his mom hasn't talked to him in 3 months. When she calls his dad it's to tell him she's leaving on vacation or something. The last time she called she said she was leaving for a cruise to the Bahamas, and Michael asked if she wanted to speak to Jeremy before she went and she said "not now". It just breaks my heart because I know he loves his mama, but she doesn't want anything to do with him.
i just had my son and my two older ones love him so much they say hes mine no hes mine lol youll see just add him into everyday things for the baby dont make him feel left out if he wants to help let him with your watchful eye on him how old is Jeremy
when we had our daughter my son was the only child for 6 years so we had got him a shirt that said i got my little sister from the bloomsburg hospital that is where she was born lol he never took it off still has it to this day she is 3 years old will be turning 4
Good luck!! And you should fix him a big brother bag and make it from little brother!! And give it to him while at the hospital! :) and also let him help as much as he can if hes interested so he doesnt feel left out :)
U wont no if it will work till u try! Hope everything works out for u! And that little boys mother can buy all the expensive things she wants but when hes older he will no and be able to understand who was actually there for him to love and comfort him! When babys born u could get him a prezzie from the baby and/or let him help pick things and get the house ready for baby!
Good Luck everything will be fine . He is just 5 he will love u n his brother . Don't worry.
That's good. I know how that goes, my dad was like that to us then poofed away to where ever he Is now.... But, I do know lil' kids can get jealous when there's a new baby. Try getting him involved In some way too with Orion that way he'll feel Included and won't feel that way If It does come to that. I'm sure everything Is going to go juss fine!
Well Michael asked him the other day how he'd like have a little brother, and he seemed really excited. But his mom is one of those moms that doesn't have custody because she gave it up willingly, but still buys him fancy things to make him think that she loves him, but she's never been there. But I love the **** out of his little boy, I almost feel like he's mine. I just don't want him to feel like second best because there's a new baby.
Aw, How close are you with his son? Hopefully he'll be excited that he's goin' to have a lil' brother to play with and doesn't think that like at all.
Thanks! I'm also worried about how his 5 year old will react to the new baby, he STILL doesn't know and Michael is waiting until I move in so we can both tell his son. I hope he doesn't feel like I'm stealing his daddy away or trying to be a replacement mama.
I'm glad you guys are able to make things work out. I wish you the best of luck and I hope for you, that he won't be the same and Is changed for the better, for you and the baby, so that you guys can stay together and have a happy family. =]
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