breathing weed smoke?

[siennasmommy]

I don't smoke, but I have neighbors that do and don't do it away from my windows. Will it harm my baby breathing it in? I'm 32 weeks as of tomorrow.

[nevernmillion]

no I don't think u should be inhaling it @ all or your kids!

[nevernmillion]

do they live in yr house?because im a hippie and the intention isn't  disrespect. I think if u ttalk to them they would work with u.they r not trying to bring it in yr home. smoking weed isn't cool around ppl who don't like it.some don't  mind it. I believe in respect. so ask them to spray or open the top of the window,instead of the bottom.if it's coming in from under yr door. ask them to place a damp towel under there door when they light it up.it helps. good luck

[Shirano]

My husband ad I are the same way, but he has realized sometimes he needs to be confrontational because I can just get mean and make things worse. It's something everyone has to do at some point. By talking to them for you he is protecting you and your child. Maybe phrasing it that way he will be more open to talking to them. It maybe uncomfortable for him but its a skill he sure learn sooner than later.

[acline93]

Sweet. Just hold out til then :)

[siennasmommy]

She's keeping her nose on the problem and when she finds out who it is she will talk to them.

[acline93]

Well I would at least expect that the manager of your apartment complex would have done something about it. Maybe complaining to him/her enough would get the job done. Sometimes it takes pestering people enough to get things into motion.

[siennasmommy]

Unfortunately he is a nonconfrontational person. I always ask him too and he always asks me why can't I do it. I'm very confrontational. He balances it out.

[acline93]

Maybe your spouse could try to talk to them?

[siennasmommy]

Unfortunately, yes I do. We want to move out , but are stuck in a lease until may. We have a there year old as well. The only problem with talking to them is I have too much of my dad in me and when I get annoyed, I don't know how to talk to anyone nicely. My temper really shows. Already had problems because of my temper.

[windyMae]

I don't think it can cause any harm, but it is really disrespectful.. If I were you next time I smelled it I would go outside and investigate the matter figure out who is doing it, and talk to them. Politely voice your concerns.. Yes a lot of people's are Aholes but sometimes alls it takes is talking to them.. I wouldn't call the cops you do still have to live there I'm assuming..

[acline93]

Hmm, true.

[siennasmommy]

The thing is, I don't know exactly what neighbor it is so it wouldn't do any good. If I did, I would call the police in a heartbeat.

[acline93]

Yes there is. Call the police :) having drugs anywhere near children is a serious issue.

[siennasmommy]

Manager already knows. Nothing else I can do.

[siennasmommy]

Thanks it just has me concerned. What gets me though, is that they know there are 4 pregnant women here and there are at 10 kids under the age of 5 and they don't do it in their car.

[acline93]

I don't think so. It'a very rude and disrespectful of them to do that though! I'd go raise hell.

[mrsCxo]

I don't think so , just cause you're not actually smoking it . I'm not 100% sure thats just my opinion . Like you know how when your around people smoking it won't show up on a drug test ... I think you need to ingest it not just smell it .