could i get pregnant without penetration?

[maripossa]

hello there...
i have already posted my question in another forum...the truth is that am not sure where i should ask abt it...am just very worry...
i am 24 years olds...still virgin...i grew up in a very preserved family where we r not allowed to have sex b4 marriage... i am now engaged getting married in 5 months...my last day of period was two days ago...well...my fiance and i kind of lost control last night and we made love but without any penetration...or intercourse
...but usually he never came on me...or on my *****...what makes me so worry..is that his sperm came near my clitoris area...i don't take any birth control pill...i never ever had sex in my whole life...i am still virgin...
i haven't slept the night coz i am very worry that i might get pregnant ..this would be a disaster and my parents would certainly kill me...
thank u for ur fast answer...i really feel depressed...

[kim_gosselin]

Sorry I couldnt read your post too many typos. Start your own post and be clear. We arent experts or doctor only future mommies.

[Temitome]

A friend is in a very devastatn state nw and need to knw smthn.She got into kissing with her boyfriend in a stAnding position..and as they continued,the gal was wet already but nothn appnd no penetration after al,dy left eachoda.Later at night,she saw ha menses but d questn s can she b pregnant?

[JLewis12]

Ladies this post is four yrs old .u can start ur own post nd clarify more I'm confused on wht it is ur asking

[SummersEve]

if i did all what she said minus the ejaculation(just the rubbing) and got my period that same day???

[kaurr]

if i get periods just next day after doing all wat she did...???

[LosingMyMindInGA]

Whether there was penetration or not does't matter.  Since you have irregular periods the best thing to do is wait 2 weeks from the last time you and your fiancee engaged in sexual activity and take a test.  If it comes up negative, wait one more week and test again just to be certain.  In the meantime try not to stress over it, your chances of having become pregnant are very very small.  

[maripossa]

the pb is that i have irregular period...for exemple last month i had them twice in one month...the 2month b4 i didn't have them at all...
NB: there was no penetration during the whole activity that we had...and there never was b4

[LosingMyMindInGA]

This is not one of the ask an expert forums, this is a forum for women who have knowledge and experience to answer questions for others.

Here is a website that answers your question:
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/question/can-a-woman-get-pregnant-from-penile-vaginal-contact-without

Basically it says that YES there is a chance you could get pregnant, however it is very small.  Any time a mans penis comes in contact with a womans vagina there is a small chance it could result in pregnancy.  Even if the man does not ejaculate near the vagina.  During sexual arousal the mans penis secretes pre-ejaculate which DOES contain sperm.  This pre-ejaculate helps in the lubrication process.  Therefore a man does not have to ejaculate (with or without penetration) to impregnate a woman.

The state of a womans hymen has no affect on her ability to become pregnant either.  

While there IS in reality a chance that you could become pregnant from the activity you described, the chance is extremely small and doubtful.  The best thing you can do in a situation such as this is wait and see if your period arrives on time.  If it does not, take a home pregnancy test.  

[maripossa]

i would be grateful if an expert answers to my question...i kind of feel am gonna loose my mind thinkin and thinking over and over again about it..

[maripossa]

i would be grateful if an expert answers to my question...i kind of feel am gonna loose my mind thinkin and thinking over and over again about it..

[maripossa]

thank u for ur fast answer :)....i do have irregular period...
any more answers or advice from anyone ??

[Clysta]

It's unlikely you will end up pregnant. The sperm would had to have been extremely close to your vaginal opening for you to get pregnant. Also, unless you have irregular periods, it's unlikely you've ovulated so soon after your period has ended, making the chance of pregancy even lower. Try not to worry about it because you could delay your next period, stressing you out even further. I'd also recommend you be more careful in the future if you're worried about something like this. You'll have plenty of chance to do anything you want soon.