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5002615 tn?1366014009

denial

So when i found out i was pregnant was at 14 weeks. but i always had that feeling that i was because i missed my period. but since i was in denial i would tell myself that it was normal my period just skipped a months since i would hear girls that missed theirs for a month or two except for mine was regular. finally in the third month that my period didn't show up that's when i was okay im probably pregnant. that's when i decided to take the home test and all three came out positive. While my sister and SIL we super excited and pumped i had no expression. i was like i guess im pregnant. i feel kinda bad because i didn't want to be pregnant cuz i just turned 18 in December. i told everyone i was pregnant around the end of February. friends family and my boyfriend. it was hard for me cuz i was that one person who everyone thought i would get pregnant. im 28+3  days now im super excited and happy but did anyone feel like this too or just me?
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5002615 tn?1366014009
Yeah that's true life goes on with or without kids. im kinda happy im having her young cuz my parents had my siblings and i in there 30s and well there in their late fifties and i feel like they won't be around so much for the grandbabies. and well @arlondonbloom id say tell them the sooner the better :) you never know maybe you family will be happier than you lol. Since i told my mom late she was super mad.
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5283748 tn?1383877889
I know exactly how you feel. I got pregnant a month after i turned 18, and never expected it. Im 14 weeks and 2 days now, and getting more and more excited.:) Im lucky and thankful i have a supportive boyfriend and family. Itll be tough, but doable!
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I still feel kind of denial. I am 20, married a full time college student and we weren't really trying, I kept saying that I was going to go on birth control after this month's period but it never came. I am about 6 weeks, don't feel any different, keep telling myself that I am just late -- I had a miscarriage last December and my periods were all screwed up since. But I went into the doctor and they did a test and it was positive, and ultrasound. Although I am married, I am still scared to tell my parents and family. They weren't very supportive of me getting married so young, and definitely didn't want me having kids until I was older and done with school with a career... But life happens, everything happens for a reason. As Bubbs92 says, you can still do things, just because you have kids just means more excitement.
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5551779 tn?1373052187
I found out I was pregnant 2/3weeks ago im approx 9weeks , and yes im the same. I don't feel any different. Although my breasts are really tender and iv felt nauseous for a week and it's gone, but I don't feel pregnant. I'm not excited or anything but I'm hoping it will all change when I heard baby's heartbeat and get my first scan. Im 21 and getting married next month, but I wanted to travel and see more of the world before having kids, but as my hubby says just because we have kids dosnt mean we can't do all the things we want to do.
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