depressed

[jgeis0611]

Have been so sad ever since i found out i was having a boy dont even want to talk about it now we have to do family things and thats all they want to talk about

[jgeis0611]

Its been 11 years for me and i still cry it does get eaiser i wont lie but u will never forget

[sunshine9985]

I'm so sorry my baby would,be 7 months....I still cry Im hoping for a little boy ..Im 18 weeks 5 days now :(

[jgeis0611]

Thanks sunshine and I'm sorry for ur loss very hard when u loose a child mine was 3 months when she passed shouldn't have to bury ur kids

[sunshine9985]

Hey hun in sept I lost my son...he was only a month old he passed but I got pregnant in oct with twins also passed but now Im pregnant again...Im praying for you I understand where your coming from just ignore all the ride comment s or ones that make you feel bad

[KTowne]

I should also add that I wasn't trying to be rude or against you at all with my comment, but just know you have one beautiful daughter in heaven, nothing is going to change that, you still have a daughter no matter where she is.

[mamaof4410]

I truly hope everything goes well for you and your family. Best of luck to you.

[KTowne]

Honestly, losing a child is all the more reason to feel so blessed either way to have a healthy child, it may take some time to come around to the idea, but I think having all boys is sweet. There is nothing on earth like a little boy's love for his mother, and when your boys are grown up, guess who they are going to love more than life and look after like a hawk? Your sons. It might take some time, but just try to think of how your son would feel knowing that you were depressed about him being him. My mom had 2 girls and then expected me to be a boy..I was definitely a girl, and she still talks about the disappointment they felt when I came out a girl, and honestly it hurts a little. I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope you come out of your sadness. Have you tried talking to someone about your loss?

[kitta92]

I understand that you are upset but there are so many people that can't have kids on there own even alone lost there baby and for you to be angry that you are having a boy I find that a little selfish and not being thankful. Not to sound harsh or mean I'm just saying be greatful for what God has given you.

[My2princesses]

I'm sorry for your loss. You seem like a very strong women's admire you for that.

[ashleyjean913]

don't apologize for venting dear.. it's good to reach out now and then..no shame in it

[jgeis0611]

Thank you for the ones who did support me

[ashleyjean913]

and i'll tell ya what...i thought having another girl after clara would make me feel better...i think i was trying to replace her or covor up the pain. It probably would have been harder on me if i had had a girl..Just remember there is always hope and maybe you might still be able to have a girl <3

[jgeis0611]

Like i said didnt mean for this comment to start this much crap but thats just how i feel didnt know i should put my whole life story down...everyone out there on this site is pregnant and dealing with something on there own in one way or another sorry that i vented bc i was upset but thats what i thought this was here for venting guess i was wrong

[ashleyjean913]

I read further...and i'm so sorry...and sorry ppl were rude..jeepers!! I understand this though on a different level. My 3rd child was a baby girl who was stillborn and after i found out my 4th was a boy i was depressed too. and believe me it will pass. He is 2 years old now and i'm so glad he was aboy..and don't ever let anyone treat you like that. At least you were honest and asking for help. I honor you for being a bigger person for at least being honest

[ashleyjean913]

have some sensativity please...or just refrain from commenting

[mamaof4410]

Her little girl passed away and they now told her she is having some other complications and this will have to be her last baby and its a boy. She wanted a little girl because she tragically lost one.

[jgeis0611]

Nope i have a lil boy and pregnant again with a boy

[ashleyjean913]

do you already have a girl?

[Lissaleigh]

Wow.....

[jgeis0611]

Didn't mean ur comments were mean..and I didn't mean for this to come off as poor me just depressed and sad bc this was my last child bc during the ultrasound they found things wrong with me so prob won't be able to have any more kids

[Rubysf]

The rude comment was a misunderstanding! And I'm very sorry about your loss I can only imagine the pain u went through! I can see why u wanted a girl. But just be strong and remember god knows why he does what he does! And I'm sure with time u will feel better! Hope the best for u!

[mamaof4410]

It's not horrible. Now that we have some idea where you were coming from we understand. Not how you feel but were your coming from. I'm truly sorry for your loss. God has blessed you with a little boy for a reason its nothing to be depressed about.

[jgeis0611]

Ok well first of all what was the mean comment? 2nd yes it is my choice on what I want and I know there was a 50 50 chance but when u have ur first daughter murdered and then u have a 2nd child and he is healthy as can be sorry that I wanted to have a lil girl...according to you all that's a horrible thing to want..so what if I'm depressed bc it wasn't a girl didn't say I was going to abort it or anything now did I?

[gatorgrl12]

I'm hoping for another boy!!!
They are the sweetest most caring and loving little lives!
My little man is 5 now and a mommas boy!
He loves daddy but will not do a thing without momma!

I wanted my first to be a boy so if I ever had a girl she would have a big brother to protect her! And he does my daughter is 3 and he caters to her. She is a handful and is going to need a big brother for sure!

This is gods plan for you.

My mother in law had four boys all perfectly healthy. Then 5 years ago had a girl she has had 5 heart surgery since birth.
But not one day goes by we do not thank god for her.
We have to be thankful in every way for what we are given.
No matter the hand that is dealt.