emotional

[lasha808]

I'm so hurt I've been with my baby farther for a year and a half on and off I just resently found when he came back from being over seas that he's been lying to me about everything he told me last year that he had got a divorce and that it was finalized I just resently found out that he's still legally married and that him and his wife have been separated for a year and the only thing that keeps playing over in my head is the fact that I'm 22 weeks pregnant by a man who is still married I feel like a home wrecker my entire pregnancy he has done nothing but stress me out and say that my baby isn't his and how I need to give it up for adoption cause he don't care about my baby and its extremely hurtful especially cause this is my first pregnancy and I'm going through all off this alone ave I'm worried about being a single mom and having to take care of my baby on my own I know giving my baby up for adoption isn't an option that I want but I don't know what to do

[lasha808]

Thank you, I just need to get advice from people who don't know me and who have gone through what I'm going through

[lasha808]

Thank you, I just need to get advice from people who don't know me and who have gone through what I'm going through

[baby2014]

100% agreed with luckymommy13 she said it perfect. Lay all your worries at the feet of God and he will take care of them for you. No matter If the world feels like it's going to end just know you are protected and watched over.

[luckymommy13]

I know how you feel hun. Keep your head up hun. This is his lost and it might be hard for you to see it right now because you are the one that's hurt but trust and believe every single mom on here is going to have the last laugh whether you put him on child support or not. This is not your fault. Don't put more stress on yourself by blaming yourself cause your going thru enough. It's not your fault. He lied. He can't be trusted. He hasn't grown up yet. You go come out on top i promise you that much. Just smile and say that Serenity prayer every day it has helped me. Pray and tell God what you want and need and he will provide!

[Bella1296]

I know your pain i really do. My boyfriend is refusing to beleive the childs his after seeing the dates to prove to him and seeing his baby he still calls me a lier. And when i go mad because of it i get called even more of a lier because im getting mad at the fact i feel so hurt but ive relised if he doesnt wanna accept hes the dad and step up and support me then its his loss because i love this unborn child with every part of me, hes an arsehole just like my babys dad is hun stay strong x

[newmompink]

Hun put him on support when the baby comes. He's entitled to help you with that baby. My brother did the same to a girl while he was still married & he's a sargent in the Army. Do what you got to do & leave em. Trust & believe he will regret it once the baby is here & getting his earnings. (:

[lasha808]

Yes he and I are over!!!! And my mother has been supportive and helping me with everything

[jackie507]

First kick his a.s.s to the curb then you need to begin working out a plan now. Can your parents help?

[Tay9662]

put the *** on child support, and forget about it.