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I feel like everything is taking a toll on me. I'm a single mom of 2. Pregnant with baby#3 (31weeks) and trying my bbest to stay strong for my babies but I'm struggling financially and every time I ask someone for help they bash me with "you shouldn't never got pregnant or its all apart of being a parent speech" I understand that but its hard and I'm not looking for a hand out or for someone to feel pitty on me. I just want to b loved and feel like everything is okay. I just can't wait to have my baby get in my feet and make a better life for my kids. I feel hopeless and depressed. I feel like I'm the worst mom ever BC were in the projects and my kids see they'r mom struggling and putting another child into this world.  I just wish I was more careful and never fell for my exes. And that I should of listened to my mom. Sorry I just had to vent
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7136384 tn?1390142888
Stay strong and surround yourself with positive ppeople and try your best to find options to help you and the kids out, everything will get better its life keep ya head up
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7998980 tn?1407262519
Things will get better you just gotta keep your head up <3
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7998980 tn?1407262519
Yes nothing is impossible . I am also in a financial struggle . My bf is having a really hard time finding a job and we have to stay with my mom for now and she doesnt want a baby here so we have to get out before hes born . I try not to stress about it but of course i do . I just tell myself that what doesnt kill you makes you stronger and good things happen to good people . I just keep my faith . Idk your beliefs but regardless what they are just keep believing in you . You have 2 kids already and made it this far struggling right ? That makes you a d a m n good mom , that shows that you've made all the right sacrifices for your children . Just keep loving them and everything will be okay <3
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9220968 tn?1413600225
Things happen just stay strong and ve a better person for them. Living in projects isn't bad. Been there done that. But after you have your kid you can gins ways to progress and be someone better for them and give them a better lufe. Don't get me wrong it is hsrd, but it's not impossible :)  
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