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7598004 tn?1396586588

ftm, single and young

Probrably one of the worst feelings when i foun. Out i was pregnant he was ready for us to get back together and be a family but once i got to like 4 months he didnt want me anymore. Its hard but i just think about my little girl 67 days left Im always here to talk for anyone i always need another pregnant person to talk and relate to
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I was 17 with my first pregnancy. Had a horrible relationship with her dad. Did it all alone. Of course it's a scary feeling and thought. But I came out much more stronger and independent. Just hang in there. I'm so blessed to be with my bf now of 7 years who loves my daughter as his own. Everything happens for a reason!
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I'm 16  and 4 months pregnant the father of my baby  doesn't seem to care about anything but him self he doesn't even ask how I'm doing or how the babys doing but his parents r being very supportiv and nice to me. And honestly being a ftm and a single mom won't be that bad Because I have family to help luckly enough but it still hurts that him an I aaren't doing this together but worse he can care less
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I wasn't that young with my first child but I did do it all alone besides family and friends but hang in there that baby is gonna live you like crazy talk to somebody hang out now while you can do something fun before your life changes because once she make an entrance she's gonna run the show and besides you don't have to share and you get to pick the name no compromise
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I wasn't that young with my first child but I did do it all alone besides family and friends but hang in there that baby is gonna live you like crazy talk to somebody hang out now while you can do something fun before your life changes because once she make an entrance she's gonna run the show and besides you don't have to share and you get to pick the name no compromise
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You & I are in the same situation . My daughters sperm donor decided to run off with a floozy from his job while I was 3 months pregnant ( I'm now 17 days away from my due date ) & since then she has prohibited him from even asking about his daughter . It is hard being a first time mom & on top of that being single! But my daughter is my inspiration to keep going with my head up high because in the futute if he ever decides to step up, he can never tell her all the silly things she did at her ultrasounds nor in the belly but WE can(: his family hasn't helped at all nor even asked about her but its alright becus all my family has stepped up to help. Keep your head up high becus things WILL get better<3
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I got pregnant at 17, told her father,  I thought hed be mature enough to step up, and he did for like 2 weeks then told me to kill the baby and myself. I just turned 18 and I'm almost 6 months. It is hard. But I cant say I'm lonely. Plus the satisfaction of him looking like a huge idiot is so great seeing asb though his WHOLE family has helped me,  except for him.  And hes no where allowed near my baby. I totally get you,  stay strong
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