idk what to do :(

[MamaBear96]

Hello ladies.. well I was on here since November of last year & I had a preemie baby. She was 2 1/2 months early & in the NICU for 47 days. She's 3 1/2 months old now & I'm pregnant again. Just found out & I have no idea what to do. I'm scared & I'm not ready for another baby. :/ Any advice?

[Staceyyyyy91314]

You're obviously a very strong woman. And seems like everyone besides your parents are very supportive (: hang in there, maybe most the stuff you used for your daughter can be used for this one as well. But congrats on your pregnancy, any baby (planned or not) is a gift of God. (: best of luck to you!!

[MamaBear96]

I told my boyfriend & he didn't say much, just that were not ready, but we'll pull through & i told his mom & she said DONT GET AN ABORTION! A child is a blessing & she accepted it. I told my sister too & she was happy, it made me feel better I'm just scared & I know my mom & dad will be upset so I'm not ready to tell them bc my mom will talk mess & my dad will just be sad since I'm only 19. I don't want an abortion or adoption I know I can do it. It's just extremely hard.

[mama2bwit2]

y heart goes out to you I know what your feeling but like both girls said everything does happen for a reason. I I am NOT trying to preach but the other day I had a breakdown because of the hormones and someone said to me that God does not put anything on your plate that you cannot handle I think you should just take a couple of days a way out your options!just hang in there and stay strong keep your head up girl :-)

[Kaity44]

You could always look into adoption hon...

[Knucks10]

Just try and keep calm. I know it can be scary and nerve raking especially getting prego this early. But just look at it as it happened for a reason. Have you told anyone yet?

[MamaBear96]

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