im 16, i think im pregnent? Help?

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Hi im 16 years old, A day and a half after my period me and my boyfriend had un protected sex, He did ejaculate in me. Two days later we had unprotected sex again, this time i dont really know if he ejaculated in me. When do i take a pregnancy test? Do you think i may be pregnant? Please i really need help. We are going to get married in March, with my moms premision and he is 18. He really wants a family and so do I. He was my first i was his. So please sugestions, anyone? I build from constructive critisizm :3 . Please and thank you , Ashley (soon to be Mrs.Miller) P.S we have been together for 3 years

niki_beth · Answer

I agree with the other girls here, I really don't think that you are pregnant, not that it isn't possible, but its not probable that you ovulated that early unless you have very short cycles. 
As far as being 16 getting married and wanting a baby, I congratulate you on having such a strong relationship with your boyfriend. But at the same time I encourage you to at least REALLY think this through (both of you) and maybe even discuss it with your mother and his family before you have a baby. I had my first child a month after my 16th birthday, and although I love her more than life itself, I wish for not only my sake, but for hers that I would have waited. I would have been able to provide so much more for her if I would have been older. 
I had my second child at 26, and still am not sure I was completely ready for him LOL! Being older did make me (and my husband since I was married when I had my son) more able to provide for my children, but there are always things in life that you don't expect. 
Children are WONDERFUL, they are blessings, and I do not blame you for wanting to be a mommy. All I am asking is that you give yourself a chance to be a child, and a young adult first. 
If you would like to talk I would love to share some experiences with you, both the good and the tough times. Just message me. 
Good Luck!

turkee23 · Answer

wow 16 and getting married and trying ot have  baby and your mom says this is ok???..... well i just read your page and it says "you need someone to talk to because your mom is about to kick you out"..... is this because your trying to have a baby???.. are you finished with higschool?? what about him??... ya know i dont mean to be rude but he could go to jail for sleeping with a 16 year old and he is an adult....it really doesnt matter how long you have been together but 16 is REALLY young to be having babies.... why dont you ask someone who has had a baby at a young age and find out how it REALLY is... its prolly not everything you think it is..... or go babysit someone's child for the day, and young child and see if you can handle EVERYDAY , ALL DAY,.... you cant take breaks from being a mom.....good luck....

tarajanes · Answer

Very unlikely hun,you need to be ovulating.if you have a normal 28 day cycle then you wouldnt be ovulating just yet.maybe you should consider going on birth control for a while.by no means preaching to you.none of us are in a position to do that,but you dont seem you want to be pregnant yet.all the best.

MedicChick1 · Answer

For the sake of your very young body, i do hope you aren't pregnant. You will need to wait until at the very LEAST 5 days before your period is supposed to start. As far as likelyhood of bieng pregnant, id say more than likely no. I could be wrong though as every woman and her fertility and men and thier fertility is different. I do hope you will finish school before ttc though! I had my oldest at 19 and it was hard physically and emotionally bieng young, i couldn't imagine at 16! I am not trying to put you down if you are or anything, but I do hope you make very informed decisions! best of luck to you!!~

heatherlynn22 · Answer

are you ttc? are you even graduated from high school? why do you want a baby so young? do you know what all entails being pregnant, delivery and raising a baby? does your b/f have the means to support you and a child? do you plan on finishing school? going to college? do you have child care lined up while you're in school? do you plan on getting a job? if not are you SURE you b/f can support you AND a child? do you have insurance? a car? where will you,b/f and baby live?

those are just a few questions you should consider before getting pregnant...if you're not already.

as far as are you pregnant you have to wait until your next period is due and if it is late take an hpt.

Heatherm4 · Answer

It's highly unlikely that you would be pregnant. Do your research on how your menstrual cycle works. Your cycle starts at day 1 of your period (the first day you bleed) then depending on how long your cycle lasts is when you can tell when you ovulate. You wouldn't normally ovulate within a few days of your period ending. 

I don't want to offend you or preach to you but you should really think about your future goals. I've been with my husband (we just got married) on and off since we were 16. Note the fact that I said "on and off" we were so young that we didn't know what we wanted then. We've been together strong for 6 years. It took us that long to realize that things were right and that a marriage would work and just now have we figured out that we are ready to start our family. 
It's great to want to start a family and be married to someone that you love with all your heart. I don't doubt you love him and he loves you but take this time and really do something for yourself and make something of yourself so you can earn lots of money and have a great job to give a baby everything that they need and deserve!