very scared this time round , i've been spotting for about a week but it feels like forever. i know i'm pregnate cause i didn't get my period in june and i feel sick alot. which is natral when i'm pregnate . i have four kids three boys and one girl ages 14 - 4 . i had a m/c in feb 08 this yr. and i am so scared i feel like terminating this pregnacy cause i don't think mentally i can deal with that lost again . i try to be hopeful but its taking over my life i go to the bathroom just to wipe and see if i'm spottin please someone tell me something my life in on hold emotionally and i feel like i can't breath .
im sorry that you had to go through that more then once. and yeah, your right.
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. It is very difficult to lose a baby, I had my first miscarriage when I was 6 weeks pregnant but didnt find out until my u/s at 7 weeks.I had a d&c then. I just had my second one last week and my second d&c on Friday. I just found out it was a blighted ovum, pregnancy hormone with no fetus or anything. Physically you recover fine and emotionally you will too. It does take time. No matter when you get pregnant again you will never forget your first pregnancy and you shouldnt. That baby was a part of you.
So keep your head up and stay positive because you can't give up or you will never have a family. I keep telling myself that.
it was a month two days ago when i found out i had a miscarriage.. im doing alot better then i was though. i've decided that im not going to try to get pregnany anytime soon again, because it wont help me forget about my first pregnancy. thank you for all your support.
Well Hi Again! You are 16... so take it easy, don't rush into anything! I'm glad to see that you are doing better. Take some time to treat yourself and take care of you, physically you are doing fine but I'm pretty sure that mentally you are still bleeding tears.
It was a month yesterday that I got my D&C... today I have my first periods since. Life goes on, the big wheel keeps on turning and not one day since, I have not thought of my little angel.
So take your time, take a deep breath, enjoy the warm sun on your face, the summer wind caressing your skin, listen to your body an give yourself the time to heal!
(((HUGS)))
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I have been thorough very similar, in 2006 i got pregnant(first pregnancy), and at around 7 1/2 weeks I started spotting for less than 2 days. The day after when I bled I had an u/s and they saw the bay and the heat bit. BUT at 13 weeks routine scan I found out I had a missed miscarriage at 8 1/2 weeks. So the baby had died a week after the bleeding. I had to do D&C . I am now 19 weeks pregnant and thanks god all appears to be normal. Just remember each pregnancy is DIFFERENT. I didn't want to get pregnant straight away because 1. I was scared of the same happening. 2. wanted to sort out some health issues before I do, which I couldn't any way. Best of luck and go ahead to try again when you are ready.
I am so sorry for your loss. Sometimes I respond to these posts and sometimes I don't because there just are no words. I wish I could say something to help ease the pain.
I will say though that this forum is a wonderful support with lots of wonderful ladies and we are all here to listen anytime you need to vent.
I will keep you in my prayers......
EVERY WOMAN who has had a m/c or lost a baby feels like that. I can assure u. I had a m/c 11/07 & when i found out I am preg again, the thought of having another m/c jus would not get out my head. I had to have a D&C though. Anyway, you jus have to have faith that everything will be ok the next time around. ~Good Luck~
I am so sorry for everything you have been through. You need to allow yourself sometime to grieve and get yourself strong emotionally and physically. Alot of women feel like that after they have a miscarriage and when they get pregnant again they are scared. You need to just give it time. My thoughts and prayers are with you . Good Luck in what ever you decide.
havent updated in awhile.. i finally stopped bleeding, and i my pregnancy hormone levels are back down to zero. not sure if i should start birth control or not. i want to get pregnant again, but if i do ill be so scared this will happen again.
i had to go to the er today cause the baby passed by itself. was there for about 6 hours. they wanted to make sure everything passed and my cervix closed by itself, if not i woud have had to get the surgery. my body did what it was supposed to and passed everything, and luckily my cervix closed and i didnt need to get the D&C. it was the most horrible thing i've ever experienced though.. all the blood, pain and tissue coming out and then the baby coming out in its sac...(sorry if its too much info, but i just have to get this whole thing out of me instead of keeping it bottled inside)i can see the baby. and its tiny little hands and feet. and eyes. so much has happened in the past two days.. and im emotionally drained by all of this i cant even cry anymore. but for some reson when i saw the baby, it kinda made me feel better. which to me is weird, but it answered some of my questions, like how big was it?, was it developing to fast?, etc. well after all that has happened, its not over yet. i have to go to the doctors every two days to get blood drawn to make sure the pregnancy hormone levels go back to zero. idk. i just wanted to update everyone. thank you for listening.
I am so sorry for yur los. I am sending u guys my best wishes.
we're trying our best. thank you.
take care and lean on each other.
thank you. at least i know some people care..
you and your boyfriend are in my prayers tonight and every night, i cant imagine what you are going through. good luck and best wishes to you.
im sooo sorry that u and your b/f are going through this. you r both in my prayers
ohkay. so when i woke up this morning, the bleeding was alot heavier than usual, and it was red. i started getting cramps throught the day but i didnt think anything of it, i thought maybe it was just gas? i went to the doctors and they did an ultasound, saw the baby... but there was no heartbeat.me and my boyfriend were devastated and i was so lost because the day after i started bleeding everything was fine, there was a heartbeat and everything, and a week and a half later the baby is still inside of me but dead? i just dont get it. i have a D&C on monday. my first time, and nervous.
So are you having bleeding that is pink or red at all, or is it just brown?
Positive vibrations being sent your way!!!
after the doctors tomorrow ill update everyone. wish me luckkk.