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im just unhappy

I have lost everything in the last few months. My home, than my husband moved out, and than I find out we are pregnant with a 2nd child and to top it all off my work is threatening to fire me because I called in sick. I'm frustrated, and feel like I don't want all of this stress.  I am unable to enjoy it . I want my life back. I want my family back. I want the stress to go away.
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pray better things are coming this is just a few bumps in the road. prayer works no matter what your going through be strong. the lord has better days in store trust me
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Sorry to hear your going through such a rough patch..but prayer changes things.. sweety jus pray to keep ya sanity youve lost enough n u dont wanna lose your child.. it cn n will become very draining but u have to put your faith over your situation.. no problem or situation is greater than the man above. U gotta believe n kno he is indeed a provider hes nt gonna put no more on u than u cn bear.. stay prayed up.. i hope your situation gets better in due time
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i feel u. i found out i was preg and babies dad wants nothing to do with me, weeks later i lost my job and no money means no rent so i lost my apartment. this should be the happiest time waiting for my childs arrival yet its the worst time ive ever gone thru sorry to hear ur also going thru the same i dont wish this for anyone
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They do know I'm pregnant but I'm actually sick with a nasty cold. And I work in healthcare I am not supposed to to to work if I am contagious. And my husband tells me that I don't have to do all of this alone, but at the same time he refuses to move back to my moms with me, so I'm alone. My mom isn't really here very often so I hardly see her. Everyone tells me to be strong for your son and your unborn baby, only think of them. But that's hard, I love them but I'm so unhappy with my life.  I feel like a failure.  How can I make them happy when I am so miserable?
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I can't say I'm anywhere Near what you must be going through, and believe me my thoughts are with you, but you have to realize your a strong person, to go through what you have so far, and still be going for it, you are amazingly strong. secondly try and take each day as it comes. Don't worry about tomorrow and what could happen, or could not happen. I know that's harder done than said but it does make things easier. Find something relaxing to indulge in, personally I Exercise when I have stressful points. It's not only something to keep your mind off things but also physically good for you, and releases stuff that helps with stress. most importantly make sure you've got a support system, weather that be online, a friend or some family, or all of them. If you've got someone to unload on it helps so much.

Hope that's helped a little. Good luck, and be positive, I'm sure it can only get better. :) best wishes.
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Oh my gosh you poor momma ;( how could he leave you and your child. And not even trying to be close now that you are pregnant. I'm so sorry you lost your home. Why would your work threaten to fire you for a sick day? Do they know you're pregnant? :( I hope things get better for you love
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I swear i was in your same position a year ago and all i did was pray.. I mean all day everyday.. First just pray to be stress free then pay for what you want
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