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im really scared, and i need someone's help. please!

My last period was on the 26th of Dec. I'm supposed to start my period tomorrow (23rd), but at the beginning of this month, like the 2nd week of january, i have been feeling like ****. i'm very sluggish all the time, i have to pee more than usual, (in one work day, 9-5:00, i had to pee 9 times...) that amount doesn't happen everyday, but i still pee way too much... around the 10th my breast started to become tender, but it's hard to notice whether or not the skin around my nipples are getting darker, due to my dark complection...they normally start to hurt a couple days before my period, but this seems to be happening too soon. i also get really nauseous throughtout the day, i have not vomited, just really fatigued and nauseuos off and on during the day, and mostly at night. i've been going to bed very early, around 9:00 (which is extremely early for me).

i took 2 HPT. once on the 18th, and once on the 20th, both came back negative...but the symptoms are still there..
now that im getting nearer to my period due date, i've been getting lower back cramps, it all feels like my period, but something just feels off...can someone give me any opinions or suggestions???
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so i took my hpt this morning, and it came out negative....and today is my expected period...i guess im going to have to a little longer..
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i used first response,  and then i bought clearblue. i haven't used it yet, im waiting until tomorrow morning...
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305180 tn?1279716747
I did. I got cramping the day before and the day of, but never started. I waited til I was a week late to make sure the test was completely accurate and took one exactly a week later. Came out positive. What brand of test are you using?
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290018 tn?1240365868
I have not had the cramping thing but it seems like everyone on this forum said they did have it even the day before expected period
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one more question though : did you get cramping even the day before your expected period?
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yeah i've been observing that... and much to my dismay as well...oh well, i'll take another test tomorrow morning, and then we'll see!! :)  thank you for your help, im sorry my question is repetitive...this forum has been a lot of help.
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340798 tn?1201030926
you have some of the signs, but if you get a negative tomorrow then you'll know that you're looking for another cause of your symptoms.  It could very well be that your cycle is going to be a little worse this month or some other minor problem.  Unfortunately, the early signs of being preggo are very similar to PMS!
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does it sound like i am pregnant?
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367974 tn?1286551158
hls1974 is right, take one early morning(first urine) on the day your period is due.
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340798 tn?1201030926
if you're supposed to start your period tomorrow, take an HPT with your first urination tomorrow morning.  It could be that it was just a little too early with the other 2 tests you took.  I got a negative the day before my period was due (i took it in mid-morning) and decided to take another first thing in the morning the next day and it was positive.
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