im young and need help

[piggypiggy]

im 15 years old, i know im too young to being sex, but i did, and dont worry i dont plan on doing it for along time after this and not inlesss im on the pill. but i had sex with a guy on the 13, we used a condom and he pulled out, i dont belive the condom broke but im not quite sure how i would know.(how can you tell?) i was suppose to get my period on the 20th a week later, but it never cam. on the 27th(7 days after i was suppose to get my period) i took 2 test at home(got them at the dollar store, not sure that makes a diference?)they were both negative. than i went to a prego clince where you can take a test.(i went to this on the 28th, 8 days after i missed my period.) they told me it is 99.1% rite, its one where you urinate in a cup and put 5 drops on this thing and wait 4 mins, it was also neg. but my beast are now tender and i have been bloated and feel like i eat more(this has been for about 3 days now.) but people have told me if you make yourself belive you are prego you will make yourself have signs you are. also someone asked me if my tummy was harder, i think it is but not sure. im very pariond, and ask to tell my mom. she doesnt know i had sex. im really freeaking out. can anyone help? i go back on the 11th to the clince to get another test, i thought about getting another from the store but not sure it pays. i have been reading abouut being prego on the intrent i think i made myself crazy


also, this girl used a condom too and took like 6 tests and home and they were all neg and than went to the doctor and she was prego, thats what scares me alot!

help anyone?

[piggypiggy]

well see i live with my grandma and maybe could talk to her but than she will tell my mom and i want to tell my mom so im waiting to tell my mom. im not sure how to do it. i might ahve to do it over the phone well im at my dads cause she gone all weekend now. but i know i really need to tell her.

and the thing is i cant drive and i live kinda far away so i dont know how i would get one, but maybe someone will. i wil ask around.

[SillyRenee]

since you were already so late and took it at the clinic, it shouldn't matter if you used FMU.  If it will help put your mind at ease, go buy a dollar store one and take it first thing in the morning with your first urine of the day.  My guess is it will be negative and you can stop worrying so much :)  no matter what it will be okay though, just realize that.  and try talking to your mom.  we might be a little older in this forum but pregnancy or the chance of being pregnant is still scary for all of us and we want it here so i can only imagine how stressed out you are.  it will make you feel better to talk to your mom.  do you have an aunt or an older relative you might be able to talk to?

[piggypiggy]

i will try and tell her, im really trying to get the courage to tell her. i rather tell her after i know im not prego. but i cant keep waititng. i know i took a test at home. but im kinda scared i didnt take them right now. i didnt use first morning urine for either the tests. do you think i should get another test and do that? or does it matter at the clince one?

[SillyRenee]

I think she is young and there are a lot of ways to not take the test right.  Too little urine, too much urine, not waiting long enough, waiting too long, testing too early, bad tests, not using first morning urine.  If she took them 100% correct and waited long enough to take them and did everything correct, I would be surprised hon.  She is 15.  It is HIGHLY unlikely that you would be still testing negative at home as well at the clinic if you were in fact pregnant.  I really think you should come clean with your mom.  That too could be delaying your period.  Being all worked up about all this is definitely not doing you any good.  And I know you have admitted to not wanting to have sex anymore but you were "old" enough to do it once, you have to be grown up and talk to her now.  She is your mom and although I don't know you or her, my guess is she is probably going to be upset but she is going to love you and help you no matter what.  Talk to her.

[piggypiggy]

same age as me.
wat you think?

[SillyRenee]

How old was this girl?

[piggypiggy]

i know, and i have brought up going on birth control to my mom before but not for sex but other reasons but it just never happened.

i dont really plan on having sex anymore, i really dont. i dont want this again. and explically cause the guy said he doesnt even want to know if im or not. so i dont want thtat either.

but waht do you think about the girl who took a bunch of tests?

[SillyRenee]

  I am sorry you are going through this at such a young age!  However I hope this helps you realize that perhaps you are too young for sex and the consequences of it.  It's almost safe to say that you are not pregnant since you have taken tests after a week of your period being late.  And yes, when you freak out about it your body can trick you into thinking you have symptoms.  Your belly wouldn't be hard yet as it actually softens before it gets hard.  All this stress too can also cause your period to be late!  My best advice is to take it easy and relax as hard as it is right now.  Pregnancy tests are pregnancy tests regardless of the amount of money you spent on them, some register lower amounts of the pregnancy hormone in your urine however being as late as you are with your period, it more than likely would have registered by now if you are pregnant.  I am sure your period will come and please if you decide to continue to have sex, maybe you should talk to your mom about getting on the birth control pill.  You would be surprised at how she might react to your having sex and coming to her to prevent an unwanted pregnancy.  Be smart and protect yourself!