Aa
just need some support :(
So found out the other day that I was pregnant with a home test, I was so over the moon... then my partner told me yesterday that he was leaving me for someone else so obviously I was upset n distressed n devastated, a couple hours later I started bleeding really heavy with lots of clots so I took myself to the ER who confirmed a mc. Now I'm still bleeding and completely depressed n don't know what to do... we were tryin to get pregnant for so long n when it finally happened everything blew up. Did my stress cause my mc? I feel like I have nothin left :(
Awww bless u and i know its a hard time for u but u have to b strong n don't worry there is always a reason behind every single thing that happen in life
I'm not particularly religious, but I do think things happen for a reason. And maybe this was a sign that you're ready to have a child, just not with that particular person...
I do agree that you need checked for STDs. And some of them are detected by a blood test, not vaginal swab, so make sure they run the gammit on ya.
Just take a deep breath and try to remember that this is the beginning of something better. My ex husband left me for some barely turned 18 year old that turned around and stabbed him in the back. So you aren't alone. I know how you're feeling about being left. If you ever need to vent or talk, msg me :-)
I do agree that you need checked for STDs. And some of them are detected by a blood test, not vaginal swab, so make sure they run the gammit on ya.
Just take a deep breath and try to remember that this is the beginning of something better. My ex husband left me for some barely turned 18 year old that turned around and stabbed him in the back. So you aren't alone. I know how you're feeling about being left. If you ever need to vent or talk, msg me :-)
Miscarriages are unfortunately pretty common and nobody knows what really causes them. Yes, stress can be a contributing factor but it doesn't guarantee a miscarriage. My sister-in-law is in a very high stress, abusive relationship and currently 33 weeks pregnant, so most likely there is nothing you could have done to save the baby.
I hope you find a man who deserves you and are able to start a happy family.
I hope you find a man who deserves you and are able to start a happy family.
Unfortunately its better that you found out now and not when you were almost full term. I would get yourself tested for STD's and then try to remember that it will happen for you when it is supposed to happen for you. its his loss and you will come to realize that in time.
One of the hardest things is getting pregnant so you know you can do that. One thing I would suggest is getting yourself checked for an wtf as you don't know what he's been up to.
Thinkin that is the only thing keeping me sane right now, thanks :) I know I was born to be a mummy.
But all I can think about is losing the 1 thing I have wanted for so long and them together n him lieing to me! :(:(
But all I can think about is losing the 1 thing I have wanted for so long and them together n him lieing to me! :(:(
I'm sorry for your loss to start with but sounds like your better off without scum like him.
One day it will happen and be with a guy who will be there for you and your baby.
One day it will happen and be with a guy who will be there for you and your baby.
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