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little Sister Problem . .

Good Morning Every one !  . Well You see i have a 16 Year old Sister and she Pregnant . She is 2 Week Pregnant .but. she really Scared To tell my Mom and Dad. & Plus my family . Because she scared they will Judge Her . I wish i can help but the Problem is . She Dont want no aboration & Plus she dont wanna tell my mom and dad that she Got rape. But she want me to.tell momma. That she pregnant. What should i say ?  Should i let her tel her by herself ?  What should i do ? Help me !  
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How could she find out at only 2 weeks? Anyways, if this is true, just stand by her when she's ready to talk
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So ? Yall think i should tell my Ma ?  Or should i Be there and support her while she tell my Ma. .  
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1816154 tn?1463430018
I kept my son and he was by rape, I too didn't want to have an abortion. I wished that I had a sister that would have been with me to tell my mom. But I didn't tell my mom that I was pregnant until closer to 5-6 months pregnant.
My suggestion is be there by your sister side and have her tell your guys parents, and give her lots of support and be there for her.
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9095217 tn?1408287670
Tell she has to tell herself but u will stand by her
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8628831 tn?1407267564
Be in the room with her for support. Im sorry that happened to her! If i were your parents id find the little **** that did it and kick his ***. See how he likes being taken advantage of. :/
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I think in her sensitive situation that she should tell them what happened, and you should be there with her while she tells so she has support from you. Then it won't be so hard. But she really needs to explain the situation to your parents. I know it might be hard for her to say, but as someone who has been raped, it is better when you tell someone so you can get the help you need. It's way too hard to try to cope alone, not to mention in her situation where she ended up pregnant. And she's really gonna need emotional support right now, even if she doesnt show it. I'm so sorry for what happened to her, but i hope things get better! She's in my prayers.
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9121436 tn?1407979502
I'd tell your mom for her. Talk to your mom calmly and explain the situation. By time she gets to your sister she may have calmed down specially if it was rape.
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Well I'd take her in with you when you tell your mom. If she was raped tell your mom that and that the guy got her pregnant and that she scared but wants to keep it.
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I didn't think you could tell when your only 2 weeks...
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U should be there by her side. No one should judge her especially since she was sexually assaulted. It's not her fault and kodos to her for still wanting to keep the baby. She is going to need support. U should be there just to aid her in this process.
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7670156 tn?1401987192
She's 16 and asking for some help... I'd help her. Help her as much as you can. Sit your mom and her down together and be there for support. If she can't find the words, help her. Help her as much as you can!
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7294220 tn?1390280420
The Best Way For Them To Know Is For Her To Tell Them
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