men/boys

[aelaine18]

My ex boyfriend is 21 I'm 18 ... I found out I was pregnant 3 days before I left the state/a weeks and a half after we broke up.... And now I'm 6 weeks and he has changed for the worst. He keeps being a jerk threatening me and all this and I don't wanna stress about it. I do love him. And I know he wouldn't ever hurt me, but his actions confuse me. He knows he's the dad. He just idk. How do I determine what to do? I'm now in a different state for summer vacation and I'm going back.. but can he be a dad and simmer down. Is this normal?? .

[MamaBear0612]

It might be normal that they freak a little, or a lot, especially with a young guy...but it's not normal that he threaten you. Stay away from him until he chills out.

[mrssandefur]

Exactly, my husband refused to believe I was pregnant (we were just dating and had broke up the day I found out I was pregnant, I found out a few hours after he broke up with me) he kept asking everyone if the picture of the positive test I sent him really was positive lol. It took his mom coming over and being there while I took a test and seeing all the others one I'd taken before he came to.gripes with it.

[blackdove69]

Did you tell him u was pregnant b4 you were deciding to leave? Don't stress over it he  probably is stressing about it he probably confused as well with you both being young have u ever talked about what if u got pregnant guys have a hard time expressing to us n showing us how they really feel...just give him time

[aelaine18]

He won't talk to me. He talks at me. Or thru our roommates.

[mrssandefur]

Its very normal, maybe he is just having a hard time coping with it and he probably misses you as well.