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miscarriage :-(

So late last night i began spotting then within the early hours of this morning i notice heavy bleeding. I went to see my midwife and as i sat in the waiting room i got really bad pain felt something. Went to the toilet and i had a miscarriage. I was only 5weeks 3days gone n it might seem silly but i actually grieved as though id lost a baby that was in my arms. Now i let it all out of my system and i just want it to be okay and i cant wait to begin trying again. Baring in mine how long i was, do u guys think or know if it would be easy or hard for me to get pregnant.. how long does it take to ovulate?
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It is hard but its even harder when i see the heart break on my husbands face. He has no family no parents so this was his chance of having what he never did. I think i feel extra sad because of guilt that in some way it may have been my fault and iv hurt the one person who means the world to me.
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It's horrible but it gets better. I had a feeling I was pregnant but every hpt said negative. Well I went to an apt at my gastroenterology dr and needed an u/s , well he made a weird face and asked if I could wait a min. They took me to the actual u/s room & the head OBGYN was there.. They did another u/s and saw I was pregnant it should have put me over 9 weeks, they found no hb nothing & that night I miscarried. It was horrible. But without trying I got pregnant again a little less than 2 months later , I'm now 34 weeks and baby is doing great.
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It doesnt matter how far along you are, its the worse feelin in th world. I didnt realise how much i wanted a baby until last feb i had an ectopic pregnancy i was truley devasted. I didnt get over it until i heald my son in my arms 4wks ago. Let ur body heal, bcos getin pregnant soon after a miscarriage ur body can reject th baby and u obv dnt want tht. So wait a few months then try. I waited 6months bfor tryin and fell pregnant straight away with one tube left. Good luck and very sorry for ur loss.x
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Im so sorry for your loss. Its never easy losing a child no matter how far along you are. Most docs recommend letting your body heal about 3 months before u start trying again. It will all depend on your body you could get pregnant right away or it could take a while. Again so sorry for your loss. Take your time to.grieve and talk to someone when your feeling down.
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I had a still birth at 20+2 days and it was the hardest thing for me to go through I cried for days & it took me months to accept the lost of my little angle so there's nothing wrong with you greiving take your time & wait before you try again because your body does have to heal I'm now pregnant again with another precious little boy I'm 29 weeks now but it took me 6 months to get pregnant again... Sorry for your lost honey and as said b4 stay away from stress it doesn't help ): that's exactly why I lost my first baby
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Thanks ever so much xx
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I have heard after a miscarige you.are very fertile but it is best to wait a bit to let yoyr body recover. Perhaps you should ask your doctor to be safe. So sorry for your loss. There is nothing wrong in greiving this loss.
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My sister in law lost her baby at 15 weeks then got pregnant about 6 months later and misscarried at 5 weeks the Dr told her the reason for her miscarriages was stress so try not to stress out about the little things. She is scared to try again bc she doesn't want to go through it again and I feel so bad for her! I wish you the best of luck!
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