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So I'm so missing the father of my child. I cry every night. And think about him all the time! We got into a huge behind fight Wednesday and hasn't talk since then. He also blocked me/: I'm so heartbroken and missing him so much.
And by the way, you WILL talk to him because he's the father of your baby... just give him space. Guys can be idiots. You have to play their stupid games.
Guys... it's so hard but you gotta give them space. Blowing up their phone and asking them a million questions doesn't work. I know because I've already gone through this recently with my husband. Stop talking to him. When you do talk to him keep it about the baby. Do not talk about your relationship unless he wants to. Do NOT cry in front of him. Keep your cool. If he opens up to you, stay calm and talk to him, otherwise leave him alone.
Not to the long messege explaining everything/': I guess he doesn't give a sh!t anymore. It hurts because it was a really long message that was just a waist.
Gosh, must have been some bad fight. Why were you two so mad at each other?? What was the fight about? Must have been important at the time for you to follow through with fighting. Think about that so you miss him less because being sad and just thinking about him being gone might not help you long term. Long term, you have to think about the issues you had as a couple.
I would worry about someone who blocks the number of their pregnant girlfriend. That's the problem. Men can just walk away but women can't when they are pregnant. it's an imbalance of power. Be powerful and really, forget being sad about him. Shame on him for just leaving with things unresolved while you are expecting his child. You should be mad, not sad.
That's just my opinion. Don't accept being treated badly. Now that you want him back so badly, he's learning he can treat you like this. I would not grovel and let him come back to you if he is so inclined. If he doesn't, that stinks. But you don't want him back if you are to be in a weaker position taking whatever he wants to dish out at you. good luck
I would worry about someone who blocks the number of their pregnant girlfriend. That's the problem. Men can just walk away but women can't when they are pregnant. it's an imbalance of power. Be powerful and really, forget being sad about him. Shame on him for just leaving with things unresolved while you are expecting his child. You should be mad, not sad.
That's just my opinion. Don't accept being treated badly. Now that you want him back so badly, he's learning he can treat you like this. I would not grovel and let him come back to you if he is so inclined. If he doesn't, that stinks. But you don't want him back if you are to be in a weaker position taking whatever he wants to dish out at you. good luck
I sent him a long message this morning saying everything. And hopefully when he wakes up he'll get it and respond to me. It just ***** playing the waiting game when you don't know if its gonna happen or not.
Sometimes waiting it out is best, but sometimes theyre waiting for you to miss them. I say forget waiting it out its already its alteady been three days.. Fight for whats yours. Tell him exactly how you feel apologize and after that if he doesnt want to come back. Ayleast you kno that you did all you could to have your family back. Instead of wondering later on was there more I could have done. Good luck I wish you the best!!
I'm just gonna have to worry about her because were still not talking. Its really hard as well. I think about him constantly and it kills me, also I feel bad because my baby feels the pain I do since she's inside of me.
Hey it only gets better day by day. I know it feels that way right now that your never going to get over it and he's the one that you want, but in time you will feel better. Just think about your baby, he or she should make your Stronger.
I thought I was soo pathetic && the only one! I do the same thing I go to work then come home & lay in bed. I try really hard not to talk to him cause everyone says he needs time to miss me but its so hard. I went to him for everything so now I just stay to myself. His mom says once the baby gets here he will grow up and realize how much we mean to him but I have my doubts.
I try to sleep but I have to work, and when I don't work my dogs decide to come in my room and wake me up! But seriously I'm the same way, I want to do nothing but lay in bed and sleep. But I wake up thinking of him and go to sleep thinking about him. Its so hard to try to smile when really your dying on the inside.
I make myself sleep cause when I am awake I am depressed! It is hard but our babies need us to be strong. The few people I have told that we are not together tell me he just needs space and will come around but I am soo scared that they are wrong. We haven't been together for two months
He's the love of my life! And the one I want to be with for the rest of my life, and the feeling with not talking kills me. Literally. I'm always thinking about him and missing him so much. I wake up like every hour to check my phone just to get disappointed to see nothing. I hate not talking to him. /:
I'm going through the same thing only we already have three kids together. He found another and they are moving in. Just give him space. If he doesn't contact you out wasn't meant to be.
I am in the SAME spot I just got off the phone with my mom and she says the same thing! It is so hard because he has been my world for the past 5 years
No, I talk to his mom about everything and she told me to give him time to miss me. But I just feel like he's gonna fine another.
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