mixed emotions

[Mreeah]

Okay, im venting
So, 8 months ago i decided to move in with my fiance & i get pregnant (planned)
My home town is 6 hour drive away.
Anyway, i guess i just feel like a completely different person. Im expecting a baby girl and shell be here in a couple months...& my old friends are visiting me soon. The thing is though, theyre in the party scene & we used to smoke pot together and im just not all about that anymore, one of my friends is pregnant too and she still smoked pot in the beginnings of her pregnancy. I quit smoking cigarettes, weed, and drinking for the sake of giving my child the life she deserves. I just dont know....i really appreciate them coming out here but i feel as if im in a different stage in my life? My fiance is literally my best friend now, we do everything together & i tried telling him about this and he told me to just ride it out, but i guess im just nervous about them coming because im not going to be the same & i just keep thinking about all the bad stuff thats happend during our friendships. I feel like such a weirdo.

[Mreeah]

Mrsrobb
- i really feel that thats where our friendship  is going. It really ***** since ive known them all since 3rd grade but seriously man. I just cant hang or something.

[joannagonzalez]

I feel you but I moved away far from California to Florida and its honestly the best desicion ever, its just me my man and our baby boy and waiting one cooking in the oven :) I feel like a completely different person and so happy. I honestly sometimes don't even feel like calling family members but I do here and there. Don't be afraid to speak up girl.

[Mreeah]

Melcarin
- thank you, if they bring pot and expect me to smoke it, theyve got another thing coming.. lol

[Mrsrobb]

I had this happen with my old BFF. She wanted to party and moved from guy to guy almost weekly and I'm married and had just had my first baby and she didn't like my husband. And basically I had to be done with it and it's been over a year and it's been the most stress free part of my life since.

[melcarin]

Just make it clear that when they visit that stuff is not allowed and if they can't handle that then they shouldn't visit in my opinion. You're the one they're coming to see. They need to respect your view and choices. Especially if they stay in your home. They can still be good friends but if you aren't into the party scene anymore then they should leave it behind before they visit.